"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you get in the relationship it self?.

C00lAF

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Hey all,i know its against the rules,but where i come from if you dont get in a "relationship" with the plate you dont get to do all the good stuff,long story short,you have to tell her that she is the one and you are lucky to have her and her eyes shoot rainbows and all that..you get the point.now according to dj rules,you dont say the L bomb to a plate to keep her wondering,but here they have to belive that you love them or nothing happens.how can i bull**** them?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The relationship is her idea. Usually when she asks "are you seeing anyone else?" or "what is this?" is your que to have that talk. Let her bring it up.

Why do you want to be in a relationship anyway? Your job is to have fun and have sex with as many women as possible. She worries about locking you down.
 

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I have never ever told a plate that we are into a reationship. They just assume it on their own .
Goddameit..this happens to me often...blame it on the experince
The relationship is her idea. Usually when she asks "are you seeing anyone else?" or "what is this?" is your que to have that talk. Let her bring it up.

Why do you want to be in a relationship anyway? Your job is to have fun and have sex with as many women as possible. She worries about locking you down.
Yes,relationship is my way to sex and fun,and with as many as i could as long as they dont know each other,and exceclusivity to the back burner as well
 

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Where you "come from" or where you ARE?

No man should ever be concerned about "how to get into a relationship". Such a question is on the same level as asking other men "What is the best brand of lipstick?"

This is 2016. Unless you live in India or some other hyper-religious country.. you don't have to tell a woman you "love her" to get laid. If you believe that, then you've been manipulated without even realizing it lol.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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C00lAF

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Where you "come from" or where you ARE?

No man should ever be concerned about "how to get into a relationship". Such a question is on the same level as asking other men "What is the best brand of lipstick?"

This is 2016. Unless you live in India or some other hyper-religious country.. you don't have to tell a woman you "love her" to get laid. If you believe that, then you've been manipulated without even realizing it lol.
I live in the middle east honey :) nuff said i guess lol. Well you have to do it if you dont want to bang a hooker here,its tough here man
 

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You don't.
 
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