"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do you get girls?

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How do you get girls?

This is a bloody simple question. Yet I don't think that everyone here knows the answer.

For a site about pulling the ladies, this is a very un-groovy thing. Everyone that comes here looking for a bit of advice, be they asking for help on a specific situation or lamenting their overall standard of game, is essentially asking the question above.

The answer they get is the cry of an idea swamped under a mound of revision and procrastination.

The obvious answer to the above is "Read the Bible". What does the poor guy get confronted with? A swamp of information. I think that the general message is lost in it. Not only that, but I think the answer to the question is so easy, so totally simple that most people try to make it hard, so that it can be something they can "study". I think this leads to a lot of clever words but not the results that should occur.

Evidence? The people that do the best from this site, the ones who improve the quickest, are the ones that look at it briefly, get the message, and go out and APPLY it. The answer doesn't get messed about, they stay focused, they get ass.

So, a newbie comes. He asks something. Don't say RTB. Just tell them:

To get girls you must be attractive and active, in that you must become masculine (confident, persistent, competent and un-desperate) and actively seek out the success you desire.

That's it. Keep that in mind, above all the philosophy and mental masturbation and you can't go far wrong. Sure, you'll want to gleen some clever lines from the site, and come here when something isn't working out, but really that's it.

So, that's girls done. Now to the world.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nice little summary
 

The-Sultan

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nice post, but shouldnt it be in the tips forum?
 

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na, more of the new kids come here to complain, so more eyes will see it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nice way to sum it all up. Good job.
 
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