"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you get girls?

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How do you get girls?

This is a bloody simple question. Yet I don't think that everyone here knows the answer.

For a site about pulling the ladies, this is a very un-groovy thing. Everyone that comes here looking for a bit of advice, be they asking for help on a specific situation or lamenting their overall standard of game, is essentially asking the question above.

The answer they get is the cry of an idea swamped under a mound of revision and procrastination.

The obvious answer to the above is "Read the Bible". What does the poor guy get confronted with? A swamp of information. I think that the general message is lost in it. Not only that, but I think the answer to the question is so easy, so totally simple that most people try to make it hard, so that it can be something they can "study". I think this leads to a lot of clever words but not the results that should occur.

Evidence? The people that do the best from this site, the ones who improve the quickest, are the ones that look at it briefly, get the message, and go out and APPLY it. The answer doesn't get messed about, they stay focused, they get ass.

So, a newbie comes. He asks something. Don't say RTB. Just tell them:

To get girls you must be attractive and active, in that you must become masculine (confident, persistent, competent and un-desperate) and actively seek out the success you desire.

That's it. Keep that in mind, above all the philosophy and mental masturbation and you can't go far wrong. Sure, you'll want to gleen some clever lines from the site, and come here when something isn't working out, but really that's it.

So, that's girls done. Now to the world.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nice little summary
 

The-Sultan

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nice post, but shouldnt it be in the tips forum?
 

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na, more of the new kids come here to complain, so more eyes will see it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nice way to sum it all up. Good job.
 
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