"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How do you get a girlfriend
- Thread starter JPlaya
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Young Stallion
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Dress well, be outgoing, fun and dont give a crap about rejection. That is part of the lesson.
I have found that tools like David D'Angelos double your dating, The Book Of Pook, the DJ Bible are very good when you are studying about theory and they are really fundamental in learning the process at the beginning.
Be wary though, these are guide books, but to get good you have to practice...and for a while you are going to be bad, really bad and come off creepy when you are using the stuff I mentioned above. But dont worry, with more practice it will smoothe out and you will find that confidence, outgoingness and learning how to create attraction through neg hits and teasing and being a fun suave guy really gets alot of ladies.
I am a PRIME example of this stuff taking a guy from being worse than bad in high school...girls wouldnt even talk to me and were disgusted by my presence....to being 29 years old and being able to pick up a girl anywhere besides maybe a club or bar lol.... or at least have a fun interaction.
Young Stallion
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You need to pick up a girl and spark attraction with her in the first place in order for her to become your girlfriend.JPlaya said:
You know what, you should KEEP doing the stuff you did to pick her up and attract her in order to keep her interested and creating and maintaining a relationship as well!
Girls love challenge, spontaniety, being teased, being made fun of, being bad and having a guy that knows how to make her feel good....err bad...err good.
Be wary with your "how do I get a girlfriend" mentality though because the guys who TRY to get a relationship are the ones that end up hurt. Or end up becoming to nice in the relationship and the girl leaves, cheats, whatever...youve gotta keep it fresh and keen.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Gray The Prince
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so for you... its a about getting lucky lol
yep, your next gf will most likely be with a girl that chooses you, so you wont really have to do much work as far as game or trying to attract her, or choosing her.
she will be the one to give you many indicators of interest...
why?
because you are asking.
so don't worry and just wait for the next girl who will pick you... you may wait for a while so in the mean time, relax.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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We don't hate you. You do that to yourself enough for all of us.JPlaya said:
Seriously, listen to yourself. "I have no game."
Then fix it. I know people with Asperger's and autism who are able to put in the effort. They have setbacks and obstacles, and they may never get to the point of being super popular, but they at least become happy with themselves.
If you spent less time creating whiny threads and more time becoming an interesting person, you wouldn't have to ask these questions.
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cablecow15
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JPlaya said:
this guy pmed me this , just because i live in a redneck town lol , it'd be wise not to take anything he says seriously
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Then the airheads don't bother you, and quite often, you get a lot of them who are married or have guys, but you can still score. There's something about these subjects, with a lot of women. It's like being the lead singer in a rock band, or something. They dig it.To the first poster.loveshogun said:
I have aspergers, too, and I got things wrong with me on the outside too.
Don't actually recall when I was disgnosed, must have been very young. I will tell you its very difficult, and i did fall into the realm of creepy or weird or obsessive, or even thinking I was a 'special needs' case. It would help of course if some people, including young people, weren't such morons.
it is easy to fall into the trap of making 'woe is me' threads because of rigid thinking- its way harder on you trying to make sense of life and other people, never mind women and dating. Its not your fault you have AS, its just life.
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Really?? 29 decades of age?? Can I find you in the guinness world records?ananursing said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.