"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Nah I distanced myself but now she's getting all hurt and afraid which I really don't like. I don't like hurting people, she really doesn't deserve it.
Well,since you do not plan on being with her anymore, why dont you just try to have one of your sex fantasy realised with her.If she doent like it well thats not so bad since you planned on gettin rid of her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Already done that :p Well I'd like to keep sexing her, I just don't want to be together with her. I'll just see how she responds.

I DON'T like using girls that seem to have feelings for me, it goes compeltely against my empathy and morals.
 

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If she REALLY likes you then there is no way around hurting her.

Acting AFC would probably work but it would take too long and is also very lame.

Why not suck it up and say "Sorry, but I'm just not happy with this situation. I don't think we should see each other anymore."

That way she doesn't feel like its "her" and its saves her feelings somewhat.

She'll probably cry, get angry, etc. but you're only doing her a favor. You are only going to hurt her more the longer you let it go.
 

Kineti[C]harm

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Ye I ended with doing that... I got her to back of alittle then I expressed my opinions and said that I did not want a relationship (EVER) because I need my space and freedom but I'd continue fvcking her and she agreed so nice.
 
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