"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you get a girl to come over?

King Of Nowhere

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We havnt been on a date or hung out yet. So,Do I just ask her to come over and hang out? What do you guys do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

joverby

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Ya, it's that easy man. If the girl likes you(based off of looks/ what contact you've had so far) she will come over. It really is that easy.

Also, if she's not busy. But even if she is legitimately busy she will make a counter offer for a night tha'ts better for her if she really likes you / wants to chill w/ you.
 

King Of Nowhere

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Ok, I just found out that my mom dosent have to work tomorrow and will be home all day :(. Now my question is "how do I get invited to her house?"
 

thevilittletroll

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if you ask her over to your house for a first date, she's just gonna flake on you. you havent built up enough comfort with her yet. she knows why you want her to come over, she's not stupid. i'd suggest anything in public. build up more attraction and comfort, then see if she'd like to come over to your place.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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joverby

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Ya, I agree somewhere public is best. I went to a protest on my last first date.
 

DonGorgon

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King Of Nowhere said:
We havnt been on a date or hung out yet. So,Do I just ask her to come over and hang out? What do you guys do?
You - "hey we should chill, kikit or spend some time together sometime soon.. we can smoke an drink and or watch movies and hangout .. "

^^ that works for me
 
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