King Of Nowhere
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We havnt been on a date or hung out yet. So,Do I just ask her to come over and hang out? What do you guys do?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How do you get a girl to come over?
- Thread starter King Of Nowhere
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Ya, it's that easy man. If the girl likes you(based off of looks/ what contact you've had so far) she will come over. It really is that easy.
Also, if she's not busy. But even if she is legitimately busy she will make a counter offer for a night tha'ts better for her if she really likes you / wants to chill w/ you.
Also, if she's not busy. But even if she is legitimately busy she will make a counter offer for a night tha'ts better for her if she really likes you / wants to chill w/ you.
King Of Nowhere
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Ok, I just found out that my mom dosent have to work tomorrow and will be home all day 
. Now my question is "how do I get invited to her house?"
. Now my question is "how do I get invited to her house?"BlueberryMuffins
Don Juan
just ask her if you can come over. if she likes you, she'll say yes.
thevilittletroll
Senior Don Juan
if you ask her over to your house for a first date, she's just gonna flake on you. you havent built up enough comfort with her yet. she knows why you want her to come over, she's not stupid. i'd suggest anything in public. build up more attraction and comfort, then see if she'd like to come over to your place.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DonGorgon
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You - "hey we should chill, kikit or spend some time together sometime soon.. we can smoke an drink and or watch movies and hangout .. "King Of Nowhere said:
^^ that works for me