"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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How do you get a girl off your mind?

GaryNas

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Dunno if anyone remembers my story, so I'll give a quick recap.

Started talking to a girl in my Uni class. 2 weeks ago from today we went out to work on an assignment. We ended up just having a few drinks and good convo. No mention of a boyfriend... She ended up paying for my drinks so I thought things went well. She ends up dropping the class the next day (NOT because of me). :D

Anyway, called her a week ago today and nicely told (ie. didn't ask) that we're going out for drinks and that she's buying. She laughed, but said it was too late since she got off work at 11. I knew it was bull**** because we did the same thing the week before, only this time it was clear it was going to be a date. She said she would call me back sometime. Yeah right.

SO, how the f*** do I stop thinking about her? It's a mofo week later and she's still in my damn mind. Only one other girl had this effect on me and I'm still with her after 6 years (yeah, I'm a cheat, so sue me). Besides drinking, do you guys have any tips for getting a girl off your mind?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ManOMan

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wow! a oneitus after 2 weeks of knowing a girl? and one date?

How is this possible?

Hang out with your girlfriend MORE, and you wont think of her as much
 

GaryNas

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I'm not sure how it's possible. This has NEVER happened to me before. :( I can't hang around my gf because I hate her.

Other girls I messed around with last summer were no problem, but this girl actually captivates/captivated me.

:confused:
 

HuuBinh

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one way to cure onitis is more girls. seriously, talk to more girls and get more numbers & dates, you'll soon forget about the current one.
 

Ice Cold

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Originally posted by HuuBinh
one way to cure onitis is more girls. seriously, talk to more girls and get more numbers & dates, you'll soon forget about the current one.
Yeah. Right now I have 2 girls who are nuts about me, huggin and flirting with me. 3 numbers from other girls, who'd be ready to go out if I called them with sufficient notice and 2 fukk buddies.

Guess what? I can't possibly think about one of them enough to develop one-itis. It's just impossible, even if I'd try to. :D Even if I am thinking about the date with a fukk buddy, some other girl will appear and I won't get one-itis.

Cheers. Work on getting more girls.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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