“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How do you get a girl off your mind?

GaryNas

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Dunno if anyone remembers my story, so I'll give a quick recap.

Started talking to a girl in my Uni class. 2 weeks ago from today we went out to work on an assignment. We ended up just having a few drinks and good convo. No mention of a boyfriend... She ended up paying for my drinks so I thought things went well. She ends up dropping the class the next day (NOT because of me). :D

Anyway, called her a week ago today and nicely told (ie. didn't ask) that we're going out for drinks and that she's buying. She laughed, but said it was too late since she got off work at 11. I knew it was bull**** because we did the same thing the week before, only this time it was clear it was going to be a date. She said she would call me back sometime. Yeah right.

SO, how the f*** do I stop thinking about her? It's a mofo week later and she's still in my damn mind. Only one other girl had this effect on me and I'm still with her after 6 years (yeah, I'm a cheat, so sue me). Besides drinking, do you guys have any tips for getting a girl off your mind?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ManOMan

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wow! a oneitus after 2 weeks of knowing a girl? and one date?

How is this possible?

Hang out with your girlfriend MORE, and you wont think of her as much
 

GaryNas

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I'm not sure how it's possible. This has NEVER happened to me before. :( I can't hang around my gf because I hate her.

Other girls I messed around with last summer were no problem, but this girl actually captivates/captivated me.

:confused:
 

HuuBinh

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one way to cure onitis is more girls. seriously, talk to more girls and get more numbers & dates, you'll soon forget about the current one.
 

Ice Cold

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Originally posted by HuuBinh
one way to cure onitis is more girls. seriously, talk to more girls and get more numbers & dates, you'll soon forget about the current one.
Yeah. Right now I have 2 girls who are nuts about me, huggin and flirting with me. 3 numbers from other girls, who'd be ready to go out if I called them with sufficient notice and 2 fukk buddies.

Guess what? I can't possibly think about one of them enough to develop one-itis. It's just impossible, even if I'd try to. :D Even if I am thinking about the date with a fukk buddy, some other girl will appear and I won't get one-itis.

Cheers. Work on getting more girls.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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