Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how do you even handle this statement?

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We had a date. She calls the next day...blah blah blah. But then she said. "Next time you drive your car cuz it's cold outside".
Ummm, 1) I hate to drive, not my thing. 2) she's basically a girl giving me orders.

Someone told me that she was casually saying that to see if I actually had a car, like If I had said, no I don't have one.

But, I took it as a strike.

Thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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marmel75

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Why wouldn't you want to drive? Makes no sense to me
 
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_sideways_ said:
We had a date. She calls the next day...blah blah blah. But then she said. "Next time you drive your car cuz it's cold outside".
Ummm, 1) I hate to drive, not my thing. 2) she's basically a girl giving me orders.

Someone told me that she was casually saying that to see if I actually had a car, like If I had said, no I don't have one.

But, I took it as a strike.

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Maybe I will..
I'll think about it. Or just ignore..
Why wouldnt you want to drive?
 
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I don't like to drive cuz I love being driven to daydream on the clouds and such , I'm a horrible driver, I know eventually I'll need to drive that's why I have a car paid for with minimal miles parked away and not spending car necessities money, if on date I would drink at least one shot and then not worry about a d.u.i. or worse, and I never have to be D.D.
Lol, it's a lifestyle really.

But yea, I think maybe she didn't mean it negatively. ..just curious as to why just like you guys
 
RangerMIke

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Best response would be...
"If you are cold, there are other ways to warm you up." and "So... you want to 'ride' in my car... I guess my back seat is big enough."

Joke around and make it sexual.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LL: I'll think about it I need to talk to the car about that first
HB: huh?
LL: My car isn't really social and if it doesn't like you it misbehaves. I need to make sure I like you (sarcastic grin or emoj or lol)
HB: haha very funny you better like me
LL: We will see how it goes..
 
El Payaso

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logicallefty gave a good response. C0cky and funny. Either that or no response. You act like it doesn't even register on your radar.
 
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