"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How do you dress to get laid
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
also theres already a thread on this. way to be lazy.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
naes420
Don Juan
idk why...but that was what made me unique in school, my pj pnats and tshirt everyday.(some guys even tryed to copy my style lol).(frigen cold somedays where i live)...and i hate to brag but i am prety populer with girls or was (im out of highschool now)
just try and stick out with something unique
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
GaryUranga
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I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
It also depends alot on where you live, how you look,..... different clothes look good on different people.
Try not to wear what everyone else is wearing but also don't look too weird ^^
I think if you search this forum you'll find a couple of guides with basic tips.
It also depends on what kind of girls you want to pick up, if you like emo chicks just go all black and cut your wrists.
Sir Juanalot
Senior Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
It all depends on your style, what you feel comfortable in, and what suits you. Take a female friend to the mall and get her opinion on things.
It's called "peacocking". When you do it like this, the girls love it. They usually just pull down your pants and suck away.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
True dat. It really doesn't matter how you dress. Last weekend my friend from a different school came to a party and hooked up with one of the HOTTEST girls at our school. She's totally preppy and he dresses punk. He just has a great personality and won her over.ElStud said:How you dress will no help or hurt your chances of getting laid. Actually, if you dress bad, you have a better chance of getting laid. Dressing fancy in a suit might also higher your chances. Point is, a women does not decide whether or not she likes you based on the way you dress.
But what CAN help is a drastic change in your normal wardrobe. This is not condoning throwing everything you have out to get something new... but check it out:
I came into highschool dressed like a skater. You know, skate shoes, tightish jeans, shirts from Zumiez, and skating hats.
Then I got a $300 gift certificate to Abercrombie and bought a few shirts and pants not really expecting anything. But when I came to school dressed preppy like that, the girls were ALL OVER ME because I "looked so hot in my new style".
Style varies from person to person. I found that I look my best dressed preppy. Others look better more casual, others look good more urban...
Figure out what looks best on you, and roll with it.
But again, its all about body language and how you can smooze the ladies. Clothing just helps a little.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
From my knowledge. Girls I've known or heard from girls. Is that, they like guys who dress nice and match. Now, it could just depend where you live and the girl. But, your call on how you dress!ElStud said:How you dress will no help or hurt your chances of getting laid. Actually, if you dress bad, you have a better chance of getting laid. Dressing fancy in a suit might also higher your chances. Point is, a women does not decide whether or not she likes you based on the way you dress.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.