"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How do you dress to get laid
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
also theres already a thread on this. way to be lazy.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
naes420
Don Juan
idk why...but that was what made me unique in school, my pj pnats and tshirt everyday.(some guys even tryed to copy my style lol).(frigen cold somedays where i live)...and i hate to brag but i am prety populer with girls or was (im out of highschool now)
just try and stick out with something unique
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
GaryUranga
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I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
It also depends alot on where you live, how you look,..... different clothes look good on different people.
Try not to wear what everyone else is wearing but also don't look too weird ^^
I think if you search this forum you'll find a couple of guides with basic tips.
It also depends on what kind of girls you want to pick up, if you like emo chicks just go all black and cut your wrists.
Sir Juanalot
Senior Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
It all depends on your style, what you feel comfortable in, and what suits you. Take a female friend to the mall and get her opinion on things.
It's called "peacocking". When you do it like this, the girls love it. They usually just pull down your pants and suck away.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
True dat. It really doesn't matter how you dress. Last weekend my friend from a different school came to a party and hooked up with one of the HOTTEST girls at our school. She's totally preppy and he dresses punk. He just has a great personality and won her over.ElStud said:How you dress will no help or hurt your chances of getting laid. Actually, if you dress bad, you have a better chance of getting laid. Dressing fancy in a suit might also higher your chances. Point is, a women does not decide whether or not she likes you based on the way you dress.
But what CAN help is a drastic change in your normal wardrobe. This is not condoning throwing everything you have out to get something new... but check it out:
I came into highschool dressed like a skater. You know, skate shoes, tightish jeans, shirts from Zumiez, and skating hats.
Then I got a $300 gift certificate to Abercrombie and bought a few shirts and pants not really expecting anything. But when I came to school dressed preppy like that, the girls were ALL OVER ME because I "looked so hot in my new style".
Style varies from person to person. I found that I look my best dressed preppy. Others look better more casual, others look good more urban...
Figure out what looks best on you, and roll with it.
But again, its all about body language and how you can smooze the ladies. Clothing just helps a little.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
From my knowledge. Girls I've known or heard from girls. Is that, they like guys who dress nice and match. Now, it could just depend where you live and the girl. But, your call on how you dress!ElStud said:How you dress will no help or hurt your chances of getting laid. Actually, if you dress bad, you have a better chance of getting laid. Dressing fancy in a suit might also higher your chances. Point is, a women does not decide whether or not she likes you based on the way you dress.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.