"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How do you dress to get laid
- Thread starter zack77766
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
also theres already a thread on this. way to be lazy.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
naes420
Don Juan
idk why...but that was what made me unique in school, my pj pnats and tshirt everyday.(some guys even tryed to copy my style lol).(frigen cold somedays where i live)...and i hate to brag but i am prety populer with girls or was (im out of highschool now)
just try and stick out with something unique
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
It also depends alot on where you live, how you look,..... different clothes look good on different people.
Try not to wear what everyone else is wearing but also don't look too weird ^^
I think if you search this forum you'll find a couple of guides with basic tips.
It also depends on what kind of girls you want to pick up, if you like emo chicks just go all black and cut your wrists.
Sir Juanalot
Senior Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
It all depends on your style, what you feel comfortable in, and what suits you. Take a female friend to the mall and get her opinion on things.
It's called "peacocking". When you do it like this, the girls love it. They usually just pull down your pants and suck away.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
True dat. It really doesn't matter how you dress. Last weekend my friend from a different school came to a party and hooked up with one of the HOTTEST girls at our school. She's totally preppy and he dresses punk. He just has a great personality and won her over.ElStud said:How you dress will no help or hurt your chances of getting laid. Actually, if you dress bad, you have a better chance of getting laid. Dressing fancy in a suit might also higher your chances. Point is, a women does not decide whether or not she likes you based on the way you dress.
But what CAN help is a drastic change in your normal wardrobe. This is not condoning throwing everything you have out to get something new... but check it out:
I came into highschool dressed like a skater. You know, skate shoes, tightish jeans, shirts from Zumiez, and skating hats.
Then I got a $300 gift certificate to Abercrombie and bought a few shirts and pants not really expecting anything. But when I came to school dressed preppy like that, the girls were ALL OVER ME because I "looked so hot in my new style".
Style varies from person to person. I found that I look my best dressed preppy. Others look better more casual, others look good more urban...
Figure out what looks best on you, and roll with it.
But again, its all about body language and how you can smooze the ladies. Clothing just helps a little.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
From my knowledge. Girls I've known or heard from girls. Is that, they like guys who dress nice and match. Now, it could just depend where you live and the girl. But, your call on how you dress!ElStud said:How you dress will no help or hurt your chances of getting laid. Actually, if you dress bad, you have a better chance of getting laid. Dressing fancy in a suit might also higher your chances. Point is, a women does not decide whether or not she likes you based on the way you dress.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.