"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you dismiss potential dates?

namismybabe

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I was scoping this girl out at a party a little while ago. She was very cute, had a good job, and was friendly. However, she told me she was a psychologist and I immediately told her "hmm.. I was starting to like you, but your profession turned me off. bye!"

It was actually my mother's party, and the potential date/***** complained to her, but as if my mum would diss her son? lolololol.. My mother doesn't know her anyhow, it's some foreigner who is a friend of a friend of a friend.

I just don't like psychologists, I think they're evil, don't contribute positively to the world, and overstep their professional boundaries too much. I'd rather date a tiger than one of those people...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CrimsonPanther

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OP, you have a case of severe prejudice.
2 of my current plates are psychologists. they both are sweet and very nasty (in a good way) in bed. but hey, after all noone is stopping you to limit your perspectives. you did a favor for the next guy she talks too :))

PS: there's a lot of weird people in this world. but the main thing is, if you like it this way, don't stop :)))
 

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CrimsonPanther said:
OP, you have a case of severe prejudice.
2 of my current plates are psychologists. they both are sweet and very nasty (in a good way) in bed. but hey, after all noone is stopping you to limit your perspectives. you did a favor for the next guy she talks too :))

PS: there's a lot of weird people in this world. but the main thing is, if you like it this way, don't stop :)))
Prejudice or fact?

I think both apply here.

But then, yeah, all people must value others, eh?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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namismybabe said:
yeah, i don't like them. i'm worse than Stalin for being human.;)
i was referring to your question.

you should ask skinnyguy. this is one field he is an expert on.
 

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namismybabe said:
Prejudice or fact?

I think both apply here.

But then, yeah, all people must value others, eh?
Prejudice or fact, you are extremely socially awkward.
 

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TheCWord said:
Prejudice or fact, you are extremely socially awkward.
Prejudice or fact, you don't get the real world, despite proclaiming such insight as a PUA. Prejudice or fact, you seem to believe all people must like or value you, you are extremely insecure and have false expectations of others.

Look, nobody has to like, respect or value another. All things in life are subjective, and our "morality" of "acceptance" would most likely be discarded in 100 years or so.

If I choose to detest psychologists, so be it. If that makes me "bad", I don't care. It's no worse IMO that sociopath PUAs, but there you go.
 

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i was referring to your question.

you should ask skinnyguy. this is one field he is an expert on.
Eh? My question is based on dismissing people. So I was "rude" in my example, big deal. Get with how humans behave, dolt.
 

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This thread is so retarded I actually have nothing to say.

Apart from what I just said < ^^^^^^^
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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OK, lulz.. then don't post, no skin off my nose.

I think you're naive and only post on this PUA to prove how sociable you are.
 

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namismybabe said:
OK, lulz.. then don't post, no skin off my nose.

I think you're naive and only post on this PUA to prove how sociable you are.
Ok. Good one. :crazy:
 

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funny op says he hates psychologists but he is talking like one.

so he hates himself? don't need to answer that
 

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Alvafe said:
funny op says he hates psychologists but he is talking like one.

so he hates himself? don't need to answer that
Er.. no, since psychology is bull****.

And I thought all morals were subjective lol.. so how is what I did "immoral"?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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*gets magnifying glass*
i suspect this was a troll thread and we fell in it.

that said, whoever can honestly state that psychology is bullshat, needs to seriously wake up.
horoscope is BS. palm reading is BS. but to call an actual science BS.... THAT is the BS. you don't like some girls, who cares? what is the point of this thread anyway?
"how do you dismiss potential dates" -- I DON'T.
or if i don't like the broad, the answer is simple. i do not date them.

anyway, troll thread is troll.
 
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