"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you dismiss potential dates?

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I was scoping this girl out at a party a little while ago. She was very cute, had a good job, and was friendly. However, she told me she was a psychologist and I immediately told her "hmm.. I was starting to like you, but your profession turned me off. bye!"

It was actually my mother's party, and the potential date/***** complained to her, but as if my mum would diss her son? lolololol.. My mother doesn't know her anyhow, it's some foreigner who is a friend of a friend of a friend.

I just don't like psychologists, I think they're evil, don't contribute positively to the world, and overstep their professional boundaries too much. I'd rather date a tiger than one of those people...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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OP, you have a case of severe prejudice.
2 of my current plates are psychologists. they both are sweet and very nasty (in a good way) in bed. but hey, after all noone is stopping you to limit your perspectives. you did a favor for the next guy she talks too :))

PS: there's a lot of weird people in this world. but the main thing is, if you like it this way, don't stop :)))
 
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CrimsonPanther said:
OP, you have a case of severe prejudice.
2 of my current plates are psychologists. they both are sweet and very nasty (in a good way) in bed. but hey, after all noone is stopping you to limit your perspectives. you did a favor for the next guy she talks too :))

PS: there's a lot of weird people in this world. but the main thing is, if you like it this way, don't stop :)))
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Prejudice or fact?

I think both apply here.

But then, yeah, all people must value others, eh?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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namismybabe said:
yeah, i don't like them. i'm worse than Stalin for being human.;)
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i was referring to your question.

you should ask skinnyguy. this is one field he is an expert on.
 
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namismybabe said:
Prejudice or fact?

I think both apply here.

But then, yeah, all people must value others, eh?
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Prejudice or fact, you are extremely socially awkward.
 
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TheCWord said:
Prejudice or fact, you are extremely socially awkward.
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Prejudice or fact, you don't get the real world, despite proclaiming such insight as a PUA. Prejudice or fact, you seem to believe all people must like or value you, you are extremely insecure and have false expectations of others.

Look, nobody has to like, respect or value another. All things in life are subjective, and our "morality" of "acceptance" would most likely be discarded in 100 years or so.

If I choose to detest psychologists, so be it. If that makes me "bad", I don't care. It's no worse IMO that sociopath PUAs, but there you go.
 
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i was referring to your question.

you should ask skinnyguy. this is one field he is an expert on.
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Eh? My question is based on dismissing people. So I was "rude" in my example, big deal. Get with how humans behave, dolt.
 
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This thread is so retarded I actually have nothing to say.

Apart from what I just said < ^^^^^^^
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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OK, lulz.. then don't post, no skin off my nose.

I think you're naive and only post on this PUA to prove how sociable you are.
 
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namismybabe said:
OK, lulz.. then don't post, no skin off my nose.

I think you're naive and only post on this PUA to prove how sociable you are.
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Ok. Good one. :crazy:
 
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funny op says he hates psychologists but he is talking like one.

so he hates himself? don't need to answer that
 
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Alvafe said:
funny op says he hates psychologists but he is talking like one.

so he hates himself? don't need to answer that
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Er.. no, since psychology is bull****.

And I thought all morals were subjective lol.. so how is what I did "immoral"?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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*gets magnifying glass*
i suspect this was a troll thread and we fell in it.

that said, whoever can honestly state that psychology is bullshat, needs to seriously wake up.
horoscope is BS. palm reading is BS. but to call an actual science BS.... THAT is the BS. you don't like some girls, who cares? what is the point of this thread anyway?
"how do you dismiss potential dates" -- I DON'T.
or if i don't like the broad, the answer is simple. i do not date them.

anyway, troll thread is troll.
 
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