"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you dismiss potential dates?

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I was scoping this girl out at a party a little while ago. She was very cute, had a good job, and was friendly. However, she told me she was a psychologist and I immediately told her "hmm.. I was starting to like you, but your profession turned me off. bye!"

It was actually my mother's party, and the potential date/***** complained to her, but as if my mum would diss her son? lolololol.. My mother doesn't know her anyhow, it's some foreigner who is a friend of a friend of a friend.

I just don't like psychologists, I think they're evil, don't contribute positively to the world, and overstep their professional boundaries too much. I'd rather date a tiger than one of those people...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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OP, you have a case of severe prejudice.
2 of my current plates are psychologists. they both are sweet and very nasty (in a good way) in bed. but hey, after all noone is stopping you to limit your perspectives. you did a favor for the next guy she talks too :))

PS: there's a lot of weird people in this world. but the main thing is, if you like it this way, don't stop :)))
 

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CrimsonPanther said:
OP, you have a case of severe prejudice.
2 of my current plates are psychologists. they both are sweet and very nasty (in a good way) in bed. but hey, after all noone is stopping you to limit your perspectives. you did a favor for the next guy she talks too :))

PS: there's a lot of weird people in this world. but the main thing is, if you like it this way, don't stop :)))
Prejudice or fact?

I think both apply here.

But then, yeah, all people must value others, eh?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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namismybabe said:
yeah, i don't like them. i'm worse than Stalin for being human.;)
i was referring to your question.

you should ask skinnyguy. this is one field he is an expert on.
 

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namismybabe said:
Prejudice or fact?

I think both apply here.

But then, yeah, all people must value others, eh?
Prejudice or fact, you are extremely socially awkward.
 

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TheCWord said:
Prejudice or fact, you are extremely socially awkward.
Prejudice or fact, you don't get the real world, despite proclaiming such insight as a PUA. Prejudice or fact, you seem to believe all people must like or value you, you are extremely insecure and have false expectations of others.

Look, nobody has to like, respect or value another. All things in life are subjective, and our "morality" of "acceptance" would most likely be discarded in 100 years or so.

If I choose to detest psychologists, so be it. If that makes me "bad", I don't care. It's no worse IMO that sociopath PUAs, but there you go.
 

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i was referring to your question.

you should ask skinnyguy. this is one field he is an expert on.
Eh? My question is based on dismissing people. So I was "rude" in my example, big deal. Get with how humans behave, dolt.
 

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This thread is so retarded I actually have nothing to say.

Apart from what I just said < ^^^^^^^
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OK, lulz.. then don't post, no skin off my nose.

I think you're naive and only post on this PUA to prove how sociable you are.
 

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namismybabe said:
OK, lulz.. then don't post, no skin off my nose.

I think you're naive and only post on this PUA to prove how sociable you are.
Ok. Good one. :crazy:
 

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funny op says he hates psychologists but he is talking like one.

so he hates himself? don't need to answer that
 

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Alvafe said:
funny op says he hates psychologists but he is talking like one.

so he hates himself? don't need to answer that
Er.. no, since psychology is bull****.

And I thought all morals were subjective lol.. so how is what I did "immoral"?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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*gets magnifying glass*
i suspect this was a troll thread and we fell in it.

that said, whoever can honestly state that psychology is bullshat, needs to seriously wake up.
horoscope is BS. palm reading is BS. but to call an actual science BS.... THAT is the BS. you don't like some girls, who cares? what is the point of this thread anyway?
"how do you dismiss potential dates" -- I DON'T.
or if i don't like the broad, the answer is simple. i do not date them.

anyway, troll thread is troll.
 
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