This is a little bit off topic, but I use to have gym class with a girl like this, and I want to know, should I really feel bad for calling her a slut? I mean come on, everyone knows it, so I don't know why they're looking at me like I'm the bad guy. Besides, I didn't directly call her a slut, I was talking to one of my friends, and she overheard me.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How do you deal with the slutty type of girls??
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dimebag_Darrell
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Guys I suggest that everyone read The DJ Bible....seriously...do it.
SynapsyS
Don Juan
^ It's posts like those which, while they can be somewhat helpful, only serve to prove that guys here tend to think that things don't change, and that every situation can be dealt with by the Bible. The whole point of the Bible is to kick you in the right direction, not serve as a "OMG WHAT DO I DO? I'LL LOOK IN THE BIBLE" sort of thing.
You're right but I don't see why you posted this. If they looked in the bible, they would be at the 'kick in right direction' step and handling this correctly.SynapsyS said:^ It's posts like those which, while they can be somewhat helpful, only serve to prove that guys here tend to think that things don't change, and that every situation can be dealt with by the Bible. The whole point of the Bible is to kick you in the right direction, not serve as a "OMG WHAT DO I DO? I'LL LOOK IN THE BIBLE" sort of thing.
It's quite easy to tell who's where. The new dudes come to the forums and ask questions about a potential situation while the veterans post about the situation and ask for feedback on how they handled it. In case you were confused, the OP is in category 1 and would do well to read the bible.
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If you think it's bad now... just wait until you reach my age...
Most women are complete and utter attention *****s...
Deal with it...
How do you do that?
Simple...
You do the same exact thing, they do to you. If you approach this sort of woman with the understanding that she is in fact an attention ***** and you probably won't get much from her, then use her to get someone else.
If she's a really attractive, sought after girl, then make it a point to converse with her while a lot of people are around... bingo, you just got the attention of a few more girls (this is because women tend to like men who 'appear' to be in demand). You could also use her as a wedge to meet other girls (something I've done on a number of occasions)...
The bottom line is that you have to understand what you're dealing with and not get mad about it... just figure out how you to can use her to the best of your ability and then discard her when you're done...
After all... that's precisely what she'll do to you...
AS
Most women are complete and utter attention *****s...
Deal with it...
How do you do that?
Simple...
You do the same exact thing, they do to you. If you approach this sort of woman with the understanding that she is in fact an attention ***** and you probably won't get much from her, then use her to get someone else.
If she's a really attractive, sought after girl, then make it a point to converse with her while a lot of people are around... bingo, you just got the attention of a few more girls (this is because women tend to like men who 'appear' to be in demand). You could also use her as a wedge to meet other girls (something I've done on a number of occasions)...
The bottom line is that you have to understand what you're dealing with and not get mad about it... just figure out how you to can use her to the best of your ability and then discard her when you're done...
After all... that's precisely what she'll do to you...
AS
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.