This is a little bit off topic, but I use to have gym class with a girl like this, and I want to know, should I really feel bad for calling her a slut? I mean come on, everyone knows it, so I don't know why they're looking at me like I'm the bad guy. Besides, I didn't directly call her a slut, I was talking to one of my friends, and she overheard me.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How do you deal with the slutty type of girls??
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dimebag_Darrell
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Guys I suggest that everyone read The DJ Bible....seriously...do it.
SynapsyS
Don Juan
^ It's posts like those which, while they can be somewhat helpful, only serve to prove that guys here tend to think that things don't change, and that every situation can be dealt with by the Bible. The whole point of the Bible is to kick you in the right direction, not serve as a "OMG WHAT DO I DO? I'LL LOOK IN THE BIBLE" sort of thing.
You're right but I don't see why you posted this. If they looked in the bible, they would be at the 'kick in right direction' step and handling this correctly.SynapsyS said:^ It's posts like those which, while they can be somewhat helpful, only serve to prove that guys here tend to think that things don't change, and that every situation can be dealt with by the Bible. The whole point of the Bible is to kick you in the right direction, not serve as a "OMG WHAT DO I DO? I'LL LOOK IN THE BIBLE" sort of thing.
It's quite easy to tell who's where. The new dudes come to the forums and ask questions about a potential situation while the veterans post about the situation and ask for feedback on how they handled it. In case you were confused, the OP is in category 1 and would do well to read the bible.
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If you think it's bad now... just wait until you reach my age...
Most women are complete and utter attention *****s...
Deal with it...
How do you do that?
Simple...
You do the same exact thing, they do to you. If you approach this sort of woman with the understanding that she is in fact an attention ***** and you probably won't get much from her, then use her to get someone else.
If she's a really attractive, sought after girl, then make it a point to converse with her while a lot of people are around... bingo, you just got the attention of a few more girls (this is because women tend to like men who 'appear' to be in demand). You could also use her as a wedge to meet other girls (something I've done on a number of occasions)...
The bottom line is that you have to understand what you're dealing with and not get mad about it... just figure out how you to can use her to the best of your ability and then discard her when you're done...
After all... that's precisely what she'll do to you...
AS
Most women are complete and utter attention *****s...
Deal with it...
How do you do that?
Simple...
You do the same exact thing, they do to you. If you approach this sort of woman with the understanding that she is in fact an attention ***** and you probably won't get much from her, then use her to get someone else.
If she's a really attractive, sought after girl, then make it a point to converse with her while a lot of people are around... bingo, you just got the attention of a few more girls (this is because women tend to like men who 'appear' to be in demand). You could also use her as a wedge to meet other girls (something I've done on a number of occasions)...
The bottom line is that you have to understand what you're dealing with and not get mad about it... just figure out how you to can use her to the best of your ability and then discard her when you're done...
After all... that's precisely what she'll do to you...
AS
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.