"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How do you deal with girls who are impossible to converse with?

BlahBBlah

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I've been talking to this chick on AIM for a week now. The first two or three conversations went real well. We both talked a lot. Now it's like I have to always initiate every single question or new topic. Then she will reply with some simple one word answer or one sentence answer. So I try to tease her and get some kind of reaction out of her. She then goes into this ***** mode for a second. It's like impossible to even talk to her anymore. She seemed really cool from the start too. Anyone got any tips on how to get these kind of women to start actually talking more?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Brian McGee

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Stop bothering. She's a *****. You don't like *****es (I assume). Ignore her.
 

Cremasta

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Don't. Just find other women who talk more... God knows there's plenty out there!
 

Delta

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right. your mistake is that you keep trying with this particular chick.

WHY? who the f is she? the key to all these questions about "what can i do to make this situation that is not working out better?" is to simply MOVE ON.

this might seem premature to you but her lack of "playing ball" is an indication of her interest. and the only real thing you can do at that point is move on. trying to increase interest is a chump's endeavor.

delta
 

Phyzzle

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You've never even met this woman. You've got nothing. She could be a 50 year old man for all you know. Whoever it is, the interest isn't there anymore.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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BlahBBlah, you do have a choice to sarge women who enjoy talking, I think there are at least a couple of them in the world.
 
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