"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you deal with girls who are impossible to converse with?

BlahBBlah

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I've been talking to this chick on AIM for a week now. The first two or three conversations went real well. We both talked a lot. Now it's like I have to always initiate every single question or new topic. Then she will reply with some simple one word answer or one sentence answer. So I try to tease her and get some kind of reaction out of her. She then goes into this ***** mode for a second. It's like impossible to even talk to her anymore. She seemed really cool from the start too. Anyone got any tips on how to get these kind of women to start actually talking more?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Brian McGee

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Stop bothering. She's a *****. You don't like *****es (I assume). Ignore her.
 

Cremasta

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Don't. Just find other women who talk more... God knows there's plenty out there!
 

Delta

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right. your mistake is that you keep trying with this particular chick.

WHY? who the f is she? the key to all these questions about "what can i do to make this situation that is not working out better?" is to simply MOVE ON.

this might seem premature to you but her lack of "playing ball" is an indication of her interest. and the only real thing you can do at that point is move on. trying to increase interest is a chump's endeavor.

delta
 

Phyzzle

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You've never even met this woman. You've got nothing. She could be a 50 year old man for all you know. Whoever it is, the interest isn't there anymore.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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BlahBBlah, you do have a choice to sarge women who enjoy talking, I think there are at least a couple of them in the world.
 
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