"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do you deal with girls who are impossible to converse with?

BlahBBlah

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I've been talking to this chick on AIM for a week now. The first two or three conversations went real well. We both talked a lot. Now it's like I have to always initiate every single question or new topic. Then she will reply with some simple one word answer or one sentence answer. So I try to tease her and get some kind of reaction out of her. She then goes into this ***** mode for a second. It's like impossible to even talk to her anymore. She seemed really cool from the start too. Anyone got any tips on how to get these kind of women to start actually talking more?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Brian McGee

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Stop bothering. She's a *****. You don't like *****es (I assume). Ignore her.
 

Cremasta

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Don't. Just find other women who talk more... God knows there's plenty out there!
 

Delta

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right. your mistake is that you keep trying with this particular chick.

WHY? who the f is she? the key to all these questions about "what can i do to make this situation that is not working out better?" is to simply MOVE ON.

this might seem premature to you but her lack of "playing ball" is an indication of her interest. and the only real thing you can do at that point is move on. trying to increase interest is a chump's endeavor.

delta
 

Phyzzle

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You've never even met this woman. You've got nothing. She could be a 50 year old man for all you know. Whoever it is, the interest isn't there anymore.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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BlahBBlah, you do have a choice to sarge women who enjoy talking, I think there are at least a couple of them in the world.
 
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