"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do you deal with c*ck blocking?

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If the c*ckbloack is legit. What CAN you do about it? Just move on. She isn't for you. Find someone better.

She isn't worth it. You can not simply change someone's mind... just learn from mistakes... try to figure out WHY she ****.blocked you.

BETTER YET, COMFRONT her. Ask her, "wtf" or What happened? Why? Maybe she didn't mean to...or if she had a reason... learn from what she tells you.

Confront her...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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have u ever been at a sausage party with only 2-3 girls around? Did you ever score or come out successful? if so, what did you do?
 

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Confront the girl.

Ask her. Not me.

This is the best method. Get the "411" from the source.
 
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man you don't know what you're talking about.

Im asking if YOU have had success in such a situation?
 

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How do you deal with this?
This is said, BY YOU, in your first post. I was merely responding... on HOW I would handle it. I would confront her.

man you don't know what you're talking about.
This applies to you.

No hard feeling man but this is ridiculous...

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my opinions are based on my experiences.

This girl I know, I asked her out -- completely out of no where... she **** blocked me. I got over it. I confronted her. Now we are pracically best friends.

That is the short summary.... I am going to bed now. We can continue tomorrow if you would to learn of the details.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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why the f*ck am I gonna confront her about the other dudes?
 

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If you see the ****block coming, whisper in the girl's ear, "Oh boy . . . here comes someone to take you away . . . watch this" and then pretend like you're really interested in the guy that came to block you. REALLY interested. And make him as uncomfortable as can be. It can be TONS of fun, and a guaranteed laugh for the chick.

Alexi
 
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