"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you deal with c*ck blocking?

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If the c*ckbloack is legit. What CAN you do about it? Just move on. She isn't for you. Find someone better.

She isn't worth it. You can not simply change someone's mind... just learn from mistakes... try to figure out WHY she ****.blocked you.

BETTER YET, COMFRONT her. Ask her, "wtf" or What happened? Why? Maybe she didn't mean to...or if she had a reason... learn from what she tells you.

Confront her...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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have u ever been at a sausage party with only 2-3 girls around? Did you ever score or come out successful? if so, what did you do?
 

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Confront the girl.

Ask her. Not me.

This is the best method. Get the "411" from the source.
 
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man you don't know what you're talking about.

Im asking if YOU have had success in such a situation?
 

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How do you deal with this?
This is said, BY YOU, in your first post. I was merely responding... on HOW I would handle it. I would confront her.

man you don't know what you're talking about.
This applies to you.

No hard feeling man but this is ridiculous...

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my opinions are based on my experiences.

This girl I know, I asked her out -- completely out of no where... she **** blocked me. I got over it. I confronted her. Now we are pracically best friends.

That is the short summary.... I am going to bed now. We can continue tomorrow if you would to learn of the details.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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why the f*ck am I gonna confront her about the other dudes?
 

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If you see the ****block coming, whisper in the girl's ear, "Oh boy . . . here comes someone to take you away . . . watch this" and then pretend like you're really interested in the guy that came to block you. REALLY interested. And make him as uncomfortable as can be. It can be TONS of fun, and a guaranteed laugh for the chick.

Alexi
 
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