"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you deal with c*ck blocking?

Fitch

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If the c*ckbloack is legit. What CAN you do about it? Just move on. She isn't for you. Find someone better.

She isn't worth it. You can not simply change someone's mind... just learn from mistakes... try to figure out WHY she ****.blocked you.

BETTER YET, COMFRONT her. Ask her, "wtf" or What happened? Why? Maybe she didn't mean to...or if she had a reason... learn from what she tells you.

Confront her...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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have u ever been at a sausage party with only 2-3 girls around? Did you ever score or come out successful? if so, what did you do?
 

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Confront the girl.

Ask her. Not me.

This is the best method. Get the "411" from the source.
 
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man you don't know what you're talking about.

Im asking if YOU have had success in such a situation?
 

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How do you deal with this?
This is said, BY YOU, in your first post. I was merely responding... on HOW I would handle it. I would confront her.

man you don't know what you're talking about.
This applies to you.

No hard feeling man but this is ridiculous...

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my opinions are based on my experiences.

This girl I know, I asked her out -- completely out of no where... she **** blocked me. I got over it. I confronted her. Now we are pracically best friends.

That is the short summary.... I am going to bed now. We can continue tomorrow if you would to learn of the details.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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why the f*ck am I gonna confront her about the other dudes?
 

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If you see the ****block coming, whisper in the girl's ear, "Oh boy . . . here comes someone to take you away . . . watch this" and then pretend like you're really interested in the guy that came to block you. REALLY interested. And make him as uncomfortable as can be. It can be TONS of fun, and a guaranteed laugh for the chick.

Alexi
 
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