How do you deal with a guy who drives wedges in your relationship

[Frank Zappa]

If a guy is trying to hit up your girl a lot of times he tries to tear you down. A lot of times he does this by, if he knows hot topics that you and your girlfriend argue about and unresolved topics, he makes sure those are fresh on her mind. Secondly, he likes to tear down your ideas and beliefs when she talks to him about you. How would you guys respond to him or mainly your girlfriend about it? What is the DJ way to do it? ~Zappa

 

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hang on i thought this was settled before, your moving on from that chick yes?
forget the c@ckblocker, he can have her.

 

[BobbDobbs]

Don't respond in kind. A confident man doesn't get into a sh*t slinging war with a 'tard.

You're above it all. You don't have to put other people down to make yourself look good.

Maybe try a little reverse psychology. Maybe over-exagerrate this (these) other guy's qualities -- that'll get her in the mind to trying to refute you.

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

I know this is a lame ass answer... but sometimes when someone is trying to purposely push my buttons... or if I'm discussing a topic that I KNOW we will never agree on... rather than argue about it all night, I just sometimes say, "you know what... I'm out to have fun tonight, so I don't really feel like getting into a big debate tonight, so for now, let's just agree to disagree and we'll have the debate another time"

 

[bludb0i]

you know your on top don't let him bother you just act like he don't exist and focus on having a fun time with your girl. you don't need to even respond as long as you and the ladys havin fun she won't notice him.