“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How do you deal with a guy who drives wedges in your relationship

Frank Zappa

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If a guy is trying to hit up your girl a lot of times he tries to tear you down. A lot of times he does this by, if he knows hot topics that you and your girlfriend argue about and unresolved topics, he makes sure those are fresh on her mind. Secondly, he likes to tear down your ideas and beliefs when she talks to him about you. How would you guys respond to him or mainly your girlfriend about it? What is the DJ way to do it? ~Zappa
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

BobbDobbs

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Don't respond in kind. A confident man doesn't get into a sh*t slinging war with a 'tard.

You're above it all. You don't have to put other people down to make yourself look good.

Maybe try a little reverse psychology. Maybe over-exagerrate this (these) other guy's qualities -- that'll get her in the mind to trying to refute you. :)
 

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I know this is a lame ass answer... but sometimes when someone is trying to purposely push my buttons... or if I'm discussing a topic that I KNOW we will never agree on... rather than argue about it all night, I just sometimes say, "you know what... I'm out to have fun tonight, so I don't really feel like getting into a big debate tonight, so for now, let's just agree to disagree and we'll have the debate another time" :rolleyes:
 

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you know your on top don't let him bother you just act like he don't exist and focus on having a fun time with your girl. you don't need to even respond as long as you and the ladys havin fun she won't notice him.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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