"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do you convert between two personas??

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SoSuaveDude

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Okay, this has been blowing my mind for a long while now.

If you hold a career where professionalism is vital, and you also have many female co-workers, you must retain your "primal urges" to be conservative, harmless, non-flirtive, and downright "nice" at times. This isn't too bad considering one should never poop where he eats.

However, when away from the job setting, how do you transfer and make a complete 180 into a bad*** alpha stud? How do you not let the niceness persona conflict with your personal life when it comes to gaming women? Is it even possible?

Would really appreciate an outlook from members with careers full of professional behavior.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LostAndConfused

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Wow. I was actually going to post a thread with the same issue, under a different guise.

It seems like the behaviors that pave the path toward alpha-malehood/success in the career world clash with the behaviors that pave success with women. Now with enough practice and conditioning I could be a jailbird badboy with a harem of hot women, I'm fully capable of it, but is that what I really want?

The only suggestion for a "middle" ground is the idea of Amused Mastery. In fact, this idea seems to be the ONLY one to work for me.

Roissy writes alot about this. But I've started to realize that whenever I try "Amused Mastery" it turns into me seeming like a rascal or having a prankster-type vibe. Strangely enough, girls still find it attractive. I think I'm too young to pull off the Amused Mastery, as I do look very young. Look into it, it really does seem like a middle ground for aspiring DJs.
 
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