Dhoulmagus
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All the girls at my school get claimed and slayed by the very few selected frat stars.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
yup that how it is in all parts of life 90% of females take turns Fing the same 10% of males and reject the other 90%.....Dhoulmagus said:All the girls at my school get claimed and slayed by the very few selected frat stars.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yup.Mike32ct said:You can't.
You just have to worry about you, not them. Get the chicks you can get.
I don't, but even the average to mediocre girls only think they deserve channing taytumskinnyguy said:If you only go for hotties, you're shooting yourself in the foot. Even if you get a few numbers you'll never be successful if you go for hotties. You have to be hot yourself.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This times 1000. You guys that only chase after the super hot, outgoing popular chicks are missing out. Choose the right woman and half the battle is already won.My college girlfriends tended to be the shy wallflower types. If you're the first guy to make them feel sexy, they will turn into your personal sex slaves.