Dhoulmagus
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All the girls at my school get claimed and slayed by the very few selected frat stars.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
yup that how it is in all parts of life 90% of females take turns Fing the same 10% of males and reject the other 90%.....Dhoulmagus said:All the girls at my school get claimed and slayed by the very few selected frat stars.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yup.Mike32ct said:You can't.
You just have to worry about you, not them. Get the chicks you can get.
I don't, but even the average to mediocre girls only think they deserve channing taytumskinnyguy said:If you only go for hotties, you're shooting yourself in the foot. Even if you get a few numbers you'll never be successful if you go for hotties. You have to be hot yourself.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This times 1000. You guys that only chase after the super hot, outgoing popular chicks are missing out. Choose the right woman and half the battle is already won.My college girlfriends tended to be the shy wallflower types. If you're the first guy to make them feel sexy, they will turn into your personal sex slaves.