Dhoulmagus
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All the girls at my school get claimed and slayed by the very few selected frat stars.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
yup that how it is in all parts of life 90% of females take turns Fing the same 10% of males and reject the other 90%.....Dhoulmagus said:All the girls at my school get claimed and slayed by the very few selected frat stars.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yup.Mike32ct said:You can't.
You just have to worry about you, not them. Get the chicks you can get.
I don't, but even the average to mediocre girls only think they deserve channing taytumskinnyguy said:If you only go for hotties, you're shooting yourself in the foot. Even if you get a few numbers you'll never be successful if you go for hotties. You have to be hot yourself.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
This times 1000. You guys that only chase after the super hot, outgoing popular chicks are missing out. Choose the right woman and half the battle is already won.My college girlfriends tended to be the shy wallflower types. If you're the first guy to make them feel sexy, they will turn into your personal sex slaves.