"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How do you come to terms with it all?

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SharinganUser

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I was going to type out a longer version of this post, but here is what it boils down to. I've had some trouble in the past dealing with the fact that I might have to try more than one flavor (sometimes at the same time) to ultimately get that one awesome dessert.

Ultimately I just want one, but to get one, I'll have to have many, which deviates from my goal of just having one. Some of the best Dj's I have known in real life have a new gf like every couple of weeks yet, when you talk to these guys they really just want a one awesome girl.

How do you guys deal with it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well what I do is try to talk to every girl i think is attractive because thats the first thing i look for. Physical attraction is a must. Then after getting to know someone better you know if you like them or not. The only problem is you have to be very selective when it comes to GF/wife potential. Any guy that knows anything about girls knows what they want in a girl. Im not sure if i buy into the whole idea of "theres someone for everyone". but anythings possible.

I thought i found the "one" for me and maybe i did. But i screwed up. Now i just hope that i find someone else that i want to be with or end up with the one Im "supposed" to be with. You cant rush fate.
 
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It's hard man, quality girls seem to be like 1 in 100. As my homeboy puts it:

"Hot. Sane. Available. Pick 2."

I guess the only way to deal with it is keep dating girls and raising your standards. Don't settle for some mediocre girl. But remember, even when/if you meet your dream girl, nothing lasts forever...

So I guess you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.
 
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