"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do you come to terms with it all?

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SharinganUser

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I was going to type out a longer version of this post, but here is what it boils down to. I've had some trouble in the past dealing with the fact that I might have to try more than one flavor (sometimes at the same time) to ultimately get that one awesome dessert.

Ultimately I just want one, but to get one, I'll have to have many, which deviates from my goal of just having one. Some of the best Dj's I have known in real life have a new gf like every couple of weeks yet, when you talk to these guys they really just want a one awesome girl.

How do you guys deal with it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well what I do is try to talk to every girl i think is attractive because thats the first thing i look for. Physical attraction is a must. Then after getting to know someone better you know if you like them or not. The only problem is you have to be very selective when it comes to GF/wife potential. Any guy that knows anything about girls knows what they want in a girl. Im not sure if i buy into the whole idea of "theres someone for everyone". but anythings possible.

I thought i found the "one" for me and maybe i did. But i screwed up. Now i just hope that i find someone else that i want to be with or end up with the one Im "supposed" to be with. You cant rush fate.
 
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It's hard man, quality girls seem to be like 1 in 100. As my homeboy puts it:

"Hot. Sane. Available. Pick 2."

I guess the only way to deal with it is keep dating girls and raising your standards. Don't settle for some mediocre girl. But remember, even when/if you meet your dream girl, nothing lasts forever...

So I guess you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.
 
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