How do you come to terms with it all?

[SharinganUser]

I was going to type out a longer version of this post, but here is what it boils down to. I've had some trouble in the past dealing with the fact that I might have to try more than one flavor (sometimes at the same time) to ultimately get that one awesome dessert.

Ultimately I just want one, but to get one, I'll have to have many, which deviates from my goal of just having one. Some of the best Dj's I have known in real life have a new gf like every couple of weeks yet, when you talk to these guys they really just want a one awesome girl.

How do you guys deal with it?

 

[NSUballer]

Well what I do is try to talk to every girl i think is attractive because thats the first thing i look for. Physical attraction is a must. Then after getting to know someone better you know if you like them or not. The only problem is you have to be very selective when it comes to GF/wife potential. Any guy that knows anything about girls knows what they want in a girl. Im not sure if i buy into the whole idea of "theres someone for everyone". but anythings possible.

I thought i found the "one" for me and maybe i did. But i screwed up. Now i just hope that i find someone else that i want to be with or end up with the one Im "supposed" to be with. You cant rush fate.

 

[Serialized3]

It's hard man, quality girls seem to be like 1 in 100. As my homeboy puts it:

"Hot. Sane. Available. Pick 2."

I guess the only way to deal with it is keep dating girls and raising your standards. Don't settle for some mediocre girl. But remember, even when/if you meet your dream girl, nothing lasts forever...

So I guess you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.