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how do you blow off a girl without being mean?

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How do i blow off a girl without being mean?

The story is, i met her a few days ago. few days later she adds me on facebook. A day later she said it was cool to meet me and wants go hang out cuz i live close by.

I can't just blow her off cuz i see her all the time in the dinning commons.

Im thinking of saying, 'yeah, we should hang out sometime', then acting like it never happened. I mean, girls are not pushy when they approach, right?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

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She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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spesmilitis said:
Im thinking of saying, 'yeah, we should hang out sometime', then acting like it never happened. I mean, girls are not pushy when they approach, right?
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That's fine. You can ask a girl out,never mention it again and make her think,"What just happened?". Its not bad as I'm testing this theory out with good results so far.
 
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