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how do you blow off a girl without being mean?

spesmilitis

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How do i blow off a girl without being mean?

The story is, i met her a few days ago. few days later she adds me on facebook. A day later she said it was cool to meet me and wants go hang out cuz i live close by.

I can't just blow her off cuz i see her all the time in the dinning commons.

Im thinking of saying, 'yeah, we should hang out sometime', then acting like it never happened. I mean, girls are not pushy when they approach, right?
 

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blinkwatt

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spesmilitis said:
Im thinking of saying, 'yeah, we should hang out sometime', then acting like it never happened. I mean, girls are not pushy when they approach, right?
That's fine. You can ask a girl out,never mention it again and make her think,"What just happened?". Its not bad as I'm testing this theory out with good results so far.
 
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