"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how do you blow off a girl without being mean?

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spesmilitis

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How do i blow off a girl without being mean?

The story is, i met her a few days ago. few days later she adds me on facebook. A day later she said it was cool to meet me and wants go hang out cuz i live close by.

I can't just blow her off cuz i see her all the time in the dinning commons.

Im thinking of saying, 'yeah, we should hang out sometime', then acting like it never happened. I mean, girls are not pushy when they approach, right?
 

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spesmilitis said:
Im thinking of saying, 'yeah, we should hang out sometime', then acting like it never happened. I mean, girls are not pushy when they approach, right?
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That's fine. You can ask a girl out,never mention it again and make her think,"What just happened?". Its not bad as I'm testing this theory out with good results so far.
 
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