Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do you become sexual after not being sexual in the beginning?

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Alle_Gory said:
I don't get it. Things are never set in stone. People re-evaluate ALL THE TIME.
I don't. Once I've made my decision, I stick to it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alle_Gory

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Energizer said:
I don't. Once I've made my decision, I stick to it.
So despite contradicting evidence that may come up after the fact, you stick to your original decisions.
 

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honestly, i try to be sexual as soon as possible. some of you guys might think what im about to say is "too cliche" or something, but really, its all about the tone of your voice.

next time you talk to her on the phone...."what are you up to" "blah blah blah" then when you get out of the small talk say:

"so..........what are you wearin right now?" it works for me girls dig it and i think they do because 1 they took 2 fvckin hours to get ready and 2 ur being kinda sexual trying to picture what they look like...but hey maybe its only because ive already been sexual without really noticing give it a try

btw, make the tone a middleground of joking/serious
 

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pua1989- that's not a bad one!

it still stands you gotta have value or a certain interest level to pull this stuff off.

a line i used tonight that ended with me getting a MILF's number. she stated she was going to nursing school. i replied, "yeah, i can definitely see you in a nurse's outfit", with a smile on my face. i got her laughing, and it broke the monotonous "interview" type dialogue.
 

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Try being witty, and adding sexual innuendo in conversation WITH a sly grin..

Its fun because you can see how far you push the envelope with someone. In Social norm, you don't talk about something sexual with someone. That would cause for a slap in the face or a rolling of the eyes look.

However. If you do it in a sly, witty tone and pull out the sex smile-- it will make MOST girls blush and smile back (some can't even hold eye contact). Finding someone with a strong wit is incredibly fun to flirt with. You can almost see the attraction and sexual lust building in her eyes. Just the fact that a man is so open about his sexuality and isn't scared about rejection is INCREDIBLY powerful/attractive to her.

It takes the right amount of different elements to make it work though. Too forward and you come off as creepy. Too funny/witty and you come off as a clown. You need the right timing and BALLS to pull this off.

Usually I just dont give a f**k and just say what ever comes to my mind. I have a very dirty mind, but i'm witty in the sense that I don't just say it outright. I'll say something and she'll be like "what?? did he just say that?? omg :)" And either she RETURNS the sexual flriting or she DOESNT. I don't know how guys think that doing nothing is better?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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