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I don't. Once I've made my decision, I stick to it.Alle_Gory said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How do you become sexual after not being sexual in the beginning?
- Thread starter iCatch
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
honestly, i try to be sexual as soon as possible. some of you guys might think what im about to say is "too cliche" or something, but really, its all about the tone of your voice.
next time you talk to her on the phone...."what are you up to" "blah blah blah" then when you get out of the small talk say:
"so..........what are you wearin right now?" it works for me girls dig it and i think they do because 1 they took 2 fvckin hours to get ready and 2 ur being kinda sexual trying to picture what they look like...but hey maybe its only because ive already been sexual without really noticing give it a try
btw, make the tone a middleground of joking/serious
next time you talk to her on the phone...."what are you up to" "blah blah blah" then when you get out of the small talk say:
"so..........what are you wearin right now?" it works for me girls dig it and i think they do because 1 they took 2 fvckin hours to get ready and 2 ur being kinda sexual trying to picture what they look like...but hey maybe its only because ive already been sexual without really noticing give it a try
btw, make the tone a middleground of joking/serious
pua1989- that's not a bad one!
it still stands you gotta have value or a certain interest level to pull this stuff off.
a line i used tonight that ended with me getting a MILF's number. she stated she was going to nursing school. i replied, "yeah, i can definitely see you in a nurse's outfit", with a smile on my face. i got her laughing, and it broke the monotonous "interview" type dialogue.
it still stands you gotta have value or a certain interest level to pull this stuff off.
a line i used tonight that ended with me getting a MILF's number. she stated she was going to nursing school. i replied, "yeah, i can definitely see you in a nurse's outfit", with a smile on my face. i got her laughing, and it broke the monotonous "interview" type dialogue.
Try being witty, and adding sexual innuendo in conversation WITH a sly grin..
Its fun because you can see how far you push the envelope with someone. In Social norm, you don't talk about something sexual with someone. That would cause for a slap in the face or a rolling of the eyes look.
However. If you do it in a sly, witty tone and pull out the sex smile-- it will make MOST girls blush and smile back (some can't even hold eye contact). Finding someone with a strong wit is incredibly fun to flirt with. You can almost see the attraction and sexual lust building in her eyes. Just the fact that a man is so open about his sexuality and isn't scared about rejection is INCREDIBLY powerful/attractive to her.
It takes the right amount of different elements to make it work though. Too forward and you come off as creepy. Too funny/witty and you come off as a clown. You need the right timing and BALLS to pull this off.
Usually I just dont give a f**k and just say what ever comes to my mind. I have a very dirty mind, but i'm witty in the sense that I don't just say it outright. I'll say something and she'll be like "what?? did he just say that?? omg
" And either she RETURNS the sexual flriting or she DOESNT. I don't know how guys think that doing nothing is better?
Its fun because you can see how far you push the envelope with someone. In Social norm, you don't talk about something sexual with someone. That would cause for a slap in the face or a rolling of the eyes look.
However. If you do it in a sly, witty tone and pull out the sex smile-- it will make MOST girls blush and smile back (some can't even hold eye contact). Finding someone with a strong wit is incredibly fun to flirt with. You can almost see the attraction and sexual lust building in her eyes. Just the fact that a man is so open about his sexuality and isn't scared about rejection is INCREDIBLY powerful/attractive to her.
It takes the right amount of different elements to make it work though. Too forward and you come off as creepy. Too funny/witty and you come off as a clown. You need the right timing and BALLS to pull this off.
Usually I just dont give a f**k and just say what ever comes to my mind. I have a very dirty mind, but i'm witty in the sense that I don't just say it outright. I'll say something and she'll be like "what?? did he just say that?? omg
" And either she RETURNS the sexual flriting or she DOESNT. I don't know how guys think that doing nothing is better?"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.