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I don't. Once I've made my decision, I stick to it.Alle_Gory said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How do you become sexual after not being sexual in the beginning?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
honestly, i try to be sexual as soon as possible. some of you guys might think what im about to say is "too cliche" or something, but really, its all about the tone of your voice.
next time you talk to her on the phone...."what are you up to" "blah blah blah" then when you get out of the small talk say:
"so..........what are you wearin right now?" it works for me girls dig it and i think they do because 1 they took 2 fvckin hours to get ready and 2 ur being kinda sexual trying to picture what they look like...but hey maybe its only because ive already been sexual without really noticing give it a try
btw, make the tone a middleground of joking/serious
next time you talk to her on the phone...."what are you up to" "blah blah blah" then when you get out of the small talk say:
"so..........what are you wearin right now?" it works for me girls dig it and i think they do because 1 they took 2 fvckin hours to get ready and 2 ur being kinda sexual trying to picture what they look like...but hey maybe its only because ive already been sexual without really noticing give it a try
btw, make the tone a middleground of joking/serious
pua1989- that's not a bad one!
it still stands you gotta have value or a certain interest level to pull this stuff off.
a line i used tonight that ended with me getting a MILF's number. she stated she was going to nursing school. i replied, "yeah, i can definitely see you in a nurse's outfit", with a smile on my face. i got her laughing, and it broke the monotonous "interview" type dialogue.
it still stands you gotta have value or a certain interest level to pull this stuff off.
a line i used tonight that ended with me getting a MILF's number. she stated she was going to nursing school. i replied, "yeah, i can definitely see you in a nurse's outfit", with a smile on my face. i got her laughing, and it broke the monotonous "interview" type dialogue.
Try being witty, and adding sexual innuendo in conversation WITH a sly grin..
Its fun because you can see how far you push the envelope with someone. In Social norm, you don't talk about something sexual with someone. That would cause for a slap in the face or a rolling of the eyes look.
However. If you do it in a sly, witty tone and pull out the sex smile-- it will make MOST girls blush and smile back (some can't even hold eye contact). Finding someone with a strong wit is incredibly fun to flirt with. You can almost see the attraction and sexual lust building in her eyes. Just the fact that a man is so open about his sexuality and isn't scared about rejection is INCREDIBLY powerful/attractive to her.
It takes the right amount of different elements to make it work though. Too forward and you come off as creepy. Too funny/witty and you come off as a clown. You need the right timing and BALLS to pull this off.
Usually I just dont give a f**k and just say what ever comes to my mind. I have a very dirty mind, but i'm witty in the sense that I don't just say it outright. I'll say something and she'll be like "what?? did he just say that?? omg
" And either she RETURNS the sexual flriting or she DOESNT. I don't know how guys think that doing nothing is better?
Its fun because you can see how far you push the envelope with someone. In Social norm, you don't talk about something sexual with someone. That would cause for a slap in the face or a rolling of the eyes look.
However. If you do it in a sly, witty tone and pull out the sex smile-- it will make MOST girls blush and smile back (some can't even hold eye contact). Finding someone with a strong wit is incredibly fun to flirt with. You can almost see the attraction and sexual lust building in her eyes. Just the fact that a man is so open about his sexuality and isn't scared about rejection is INCREDIBLY powerful/attractive to her.
It takes the right amount of different elements to make it work though. Too forward and you come off as creepy. Too funny/witty and you come off as a clown. You need the right timing and BALLS to pull this off.
Usually I just dont give a f**k and just say what ever comes to my mind. I have a very dirty mind, but i'm witty in the sense that I don't just say it outright. I'll say something and she'll be like "what?? did he just say that?? omg
" And either she RETURNS the sexual flriting or she DOESNT. I don't know how guys think that doing nothing is better?"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.