"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How do you become sexual after not being sexual in the beginning?
- Thread starter iCatch
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DonJoseCantosie
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Metaphysical
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2Pac_Makaveli
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Energizer
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If the sexual attraction and chemistry is there at the beginning, it won't be there through the middle and at the end (obviously). These human traits are natural and cannot be 'faked'.
2Pac_Makaveli
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Energizer
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You can fake being sexual, that's in no doubt, but you cannot fake sexual chemistry, it's either there or it isn't. Sex is more than just being physical, the best sex I've had is when there was a strong sense of sexual chemistry between me and the girl.2Pac_Makaveli said:
2Pac_Makaveli
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
i thought i was friend zoned too but one of her friends came up to me last week and was like "you know so and so has a crush on u right?"2Pac_Makaveli said:
i guess she stopped touching me like before because she doesn't think i like her?
SuavePlaya
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That was such a lame excuse dude. Accept the fact you fvcked up on first down. Now you got two more tries before you punt this chick.iCatch said:
Don't listen to the chumps above, (but for Meta and Jose). I used to be one of those guys. KJs.
I just sitting here with a sore nut from getting it sucked a bit too hard the other night (thems the problems you have when you get out off the web) and this mild discomfort got me thinking about the entire PU scene and I'd thought I'd pop in and see whats happening.
Not a lots changed.
Anyhoo...
You ARE always in the game. It doesn't matter how hard you've f*cked up or how long you've known the chick without being sexual. Everyday is a fresh start. Do as Meta says. If not then follow Jose advice.
She wants ya. You want her. Go for it.
JJ
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I don't get it. Things are never set in stone. People re-evaluate ALL THE TIME.Energizer said:
To the OP: Do it slow. Get comfortable with it and yourself. You can't force it, and you can't fake it. So take it slow and gradual.
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Fortunately in your case, two weeks is nothing. You still have time. Just start being sexual with her.
Canadian Catnip
Senior Don Juan
Instead of sex lets use another topic to get the picture clear. Lets say chess.
So you meet a women and you wonder if she would like to play chess with you? She likes chess and was hoping you would bring it up so she could take out her board and both of you could play.
Some men she is interested in playing chess with and some men she is not. She lets the men bring it up to see where they stand on the whole chess game thing, mainly because if she goes around asking every guy if they like to play chess she could get labeled as a chess master. Besides there are lots of other things to do other than play chess that are equally interesting.
As a guy you HAVE TO let the women know that you have played chess before and will play it again in the future.
Back to sex.
It does not have to be full on sexual comments all the time. She may get the idea that you are sex crazy.
My advice boils down to the following lines. When showing someone your personality, you show them several aspects of who you are. You talk about sports, movies whatever, make a point of sprinkling just a tiny bit of talk about sex in there from time to time.
If she is interested in PLAYING, she will pick up on it and she will know that it is a topic that you are not afraid of.
This is what people mean when they say, be sexual. Occasionally crack a joke that is sexual. Talk about boobs. Tell her you thought someone was sexy then drop the conversation. Things like that. Keep it light and funny.
The most successful guys I have ever seen will always get into sex talk before too long.
Open that topic with her.
I've done this with using puns and sexual jokes. You have to have some value with the lady, or you will come off as a perverted dipsh_t or loser. there will be sort of a "moment of truth" where her response will let you know if she is diggin it. if you get the approval, game on! Sounds like you do have the value, so now you just gotta step up the game.
examples from a chic I am gaming-
she asks me if i noticed her new hair color. at first i gave a boring answer "no, what's different?" then, i went for it and asked her if she dyes it just "on top" with a smirk on my face. she laughs and pinches my cheeks.
her friend says "don't try to **** my friend!" in a semi-serious tone, i reply "she's trying to **** me!" shrugging my shoulders and smirking. she laughs and hits me on the arm.
jokes like this and kino, turn bland conversations into fun and bring out the sexual tension between people.
joe45
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any more examples of the sexual innedo or talk . i love to hear em.hover411 said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.