battle_sheep
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We all know chicks go crazy over dudes who have fun, so how do you do it besides having a killer sense of humor?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How do you become a FUN guy?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Have stories.
"Hey... let me tell you something crazy that happened the other night... blah blah blah"
"hahah no way"
"yeh i couldn't believe it either"
You get the idea. Tease her aswel, be spontaneous - being fun isn't difficult... make sure you are eating correctly and keep your energy levels topped up with red bull
"Hey... let me tell you something crazy that happened the other night... blah blah blah"
"hahah no way"
"yeh i couldn't believe it either"
You get the idea. Tease her aswel, be spontaneous - being fun isn't difficult... make sure you are eating correctly and keep your energy levels topped up with red bull
u need to relaxx...
it needs to come naturally... trying to be fun is not like reading a manual....
just go out and enjoy your life,... do things u enjoy doing and hang out with fun people..
also tease girls and make them smile...
if certain girls still dont find u fun after that then u shouldnt being pursuing them anyway (unless they have amazing tits)... find a girl who likes u for who u are..
it needs to come naturally... trying to be fun is not like reading a manual....
just go out and enjoy your life,... do things u enjoy doing and hang out with fun people..
also tease girls and make them smile...
if certain girls still dont find u fun after that then u shouldnt being pursuing them anyway (unless they have amazing tits)... find a girl who likes u for who u are..
battle_sheep said:
simple-dont take yourself so seriously man-youre probably one of those uptight dudes right? loosen up-watch something funny-laugh-this will help get you loose-I think we all can be potential comedians if we can just let go-
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
You do the things that make you happy.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Duffdog said:
thats cool,BUT, I would add that he needs to watch some FUNNY stand up comedians-the reason why the richard pryors, george carlins, robin williams, etc., is so funny because they'd bit$h about their problems with themselves and the world around them EFFECTIVELY-if you can effectivley present your world concerns in a light, funny way then youre good-but one thing about being funny you must know that it does involve being an ******* a bit and you may not be ready for all that because you all worried about what she thinks of you-you will start being funny by stop givin a sh$t so much about what a girl or people for that matter think about you.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Most of the answers above were solid. Being in the moment helps. Also Doing things that makes you happy aka SELF AMUSING is another great way.
So , you have to focus on the NOW , on the moment and let go all the voices inside your had and say FUCK OFF to all the external things and focus on doing things that amuse you.
So , you have to focus on the NOW , on the moment and let go all the voices inside your had and say FUCK OFF to all the external things and focus on doing things that amuse you.
Hmmm, I might disagree with you there.Daddy The Pimp said:
Granted, I'm a weird dude, but one thing that I LOVE doing is teasing people. Above and beyond "gentle teasing." If you do things only for self-amusement rather than the amusement of others you might find yourself by yourself. Keep in mind that relating needs two.
To become a fun guy see the world as a fun place.
Look out for the fun things in all situations. All comedians do that. Even at funerals they'll see things in a funny way. Chrildren do it too. They'll laugh at little things you wouldn't see.
Look out for the fun things in all situations. All comedians do that. Even at funerals they'll see things in a funny way. Chrildren do it too. They'll laugh at little things you wouldn't see.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Do this : Listen to all the stupid things people say and do ( and the stupid things you say and do yourself) And repeat the stupid things out loud to your surroundings and laugh/smile about it.
But remember, don`t be the funny guy who takes all the **** all the time. ( Don`t be the clown) Make fun of other people to so that you don`t become this person.
And it is not attractive to make too much fun of yourself. ( This is called low self esteem in other peoples eyes)
Example: The girl are saying to her lady friend: The guy has come to pick us up.
X : Deam, your friend are nice, she are finding a boy for you. ( X laughing)
The girls looks shooked a moment and after a few seconds they start to laugh.
X: One d i c k are to little for you, you need one in each of your holes, ore you never become happy.
The girls are laughing and joking about it. ROFL
The most important mindset you have to have is : Always have fun
: Listen to all the stupid things people say and do ( and the stupid things you say and do yourself) And repeat the stupid things out loud to your surroundings and laugh/smile about it.But remember, don`t be the funny guy who takes all the **** all the time. ( Don`t be the clown) Make fun of other people to so that you don`t become this person.
And it is not attractive to make too much fun of yourself. ( This is called low self esteem in other peoples eyes)
Example: The girl are saying to her lady friend: The guy has come to pick us up.
X : Deam, your friend are nice, she are finding a boy for you. ( X laughing)
The girls looks shooked a moment and after a few seconds they start to laugh.
X: One d i c k are to little for you, you need one in each of your holes, ore you never become happy.
The girls are laughing and joking about it. ROFL
The most important mindset you have to have is : Always have fun
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Man when self amusing , if you have a strong frame, you can draw people on your reality.When self amusing , dont be the pvssy that does something than looks around for others reactions. That wont work. Instead , keep doing it and until they are drawn to your reality.FairShake said:
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Don't worry about the outcome. The best way is to "give them" and experience with you, and just let loose and let your kalamazo out. Say something outrageous and something they don't here every day, the more creative the better, For example:
(smiling and laughing)
Oh my god, you necklace just blinded me when the sunlight hit it. Why does it have to be so shiny, man you must be a cool girl, but still ouch.
The secret is too be in a naughty state, or you wont be in the zone muahahahaha!
(smiling and laughing)
Oh my god, you necklace just blinded me when the sunlight hit it. Why does it have to be so shiny, man you must be a cool girl, but still ouch.
The secret is too be in a naughty state, or you wont be in the zone muahahahaha!
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What about a guy who has more serious intentions in his dealings with women, such as a lifelong committed relationship? Life isn't one big party. I'm 35, fun is for young people although even when I was young myself, things that others seemed to find "fun" didn't interest me. As far as having stories to tell, I'll bet a lot of those "adventures" that you can laugh about now weren't so much fun when you were going through them. Not very safe anyway. If a guy is looking for a serious lifelong committed relationship, is he really supposed to present a "fun" image to women, when going out and partying and getting drunk and being irresponsible isn't the kind of life he wants for himself and a future wife? When women expect a guy to be "fun" during dating, do they not understand that when the dating phase is over its time to get down to the business of real life (going to work, paying bills, making prudent life decisions)? To me it is just living in a world of pretend to say "we're just going to have a good time and have fun", like that's going to continue after the dating phase is over.
To be a funny guy, simply do and say things that make you laugh, rather than doing things for other's amusement. I find my funniest jokes are ones where I can hardly contain myself from laughing when I say them, and everyone else bursts out laughing because of the fun energy I am creating, even if the joke wasn't that good.
If I said the funniest joke, yet didn't laugh myself and just looked at other people waiting for them to laugh, then it becomes unfunny.
If I said the funniest joke, yet didn't laugh myself and just looked at other people waiting for them to laugh, then it becomes unfunny.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.