battle_sheep
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We all know chicks go crazy over dudes who have fun, so how do you do it besides having a killer sense of humor?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How do you become a FUN guy?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Have stories.
"Hey... let me tell you something crazy that happened the other night... blah blah blah"
"hahah no way"
"yeh i couldn't believe it either"
You get the idea. Tease her aswel, be spontaneous - being fun isn't difficult... make sure you are eating correctly and keep your energy levels topped up with red bull
"Hey... let me tell you something crazy that happened the other night... blah blah blah"
"hahah no way"
"yeh i couldn't believe it either"
You get the idea. Tease her aswel, be spontaneous - being fun isn't difficult... make sure you are eating correctly and keep your energy levels topped up with red bull
u need to relaxx...
it needs to come naturally... trying to be fun is not like reading a manual....
just go out and enjoy your life,... do things u enjoy doing and hang out with fun people..
also tease girls and make them smile...
if certain girls still dont find u fun after that then u shouldnt being pursuing them anyway (unless they have amazing tits)... find a girl who likes u for who u are..
it needs to come naturally... trying to be fun is not like reading a manual....
just go out and enjoy your life,... do things u enjoy doing and hang out with fun people..
also tease girls and make them smile...
if certain girls still dont find u fun after that then u shouldnt being pursuing them anyway (unless they have amazing tits)... find a girl who likes u for who u are..
battle_sheep said:
simple-dont take yourself so seriously man-youre probably one of those uptight dudes right? loosen up-watch something funny-laugh-this will help get you loose-I think we all can be potential comedians if we can just let go-
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
You do the things that make you happy.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Duffdog said:
thats cool,BUT, I would add that he needs to watch some FUNNY stand up comedians-the reason why the richard pryors, george carlins, robin williams, etc., is so funny because they'd bit$h about their problems with themselves and the world around them EFFECTIVELY-if you can effectivley present your world concerns in a light, funny way then youre good-but one thing about being funny you must know that it does involve being an ******* a bit and you may not be ready for all that because you all worried about what she thinks of you-you will start being funny by stop givin a sh$t so much about what a girl or people for that matter think about you.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Most of the answers above were solid. Being in the moment helps. Also Doing things that makes you happy aka SELF AMUSING is another great way.
So , you have to focus on the NOW , on the moment and let go all the voices inside your had and say FUCK OFF to all the external things and focus on doing things that amuse you.
So , you have to focus on the NOW , on the moment and let go all the voices inside your had and say FUCK OFF to all the external things and focus on doing things that amuse you.
Hmmm, I might disagree with you there.Daddy The Pimp said:
Granted, I'm a weird dude, but one thing that I LOVE doing is teasing people. Above and beyond "gentle teasing." If you do things only for self-amusement rather than the amusement of others you might find yourself by yourself. Keep in mind that relating needs two.
To become a fun guy see the world as a fun place.
Look out for the fun things in all situations. All comedians do that. Even at funerals they'll see things in a funny way. Chrildren do it too. They'll laugh at little things you wouldn't see.
Look out for the fun things in all situations. All comedians do that. Even at funerals they'll see things in a funny way. Chrildren do it too. They'll laugh at little things you wouldn't see.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Do this : Listen to all the stupid things people say and do ( and the stupid things you say and do yourself) And repeat the stupid things out loud to your surroundings and laugh/smile about it.
But remember, don`t be the funny guy who takes all the **** all the time. ( Don`t be the clown) Make fun of other people to so that you don`t become this person.
And it is not attractive to make too much fun of yourself. ( This is called low self esteem in other peoples eyes)
Example: The girl are saying to her lady friend: The guy has come to pick us up.
X : Deam, your friend are nice, she are finding a boy for you. ( X laughing)
The girls looks shooked a moment and after a few seconds they start to laugh.
X: One d i c k are to little for you, you need one in each of your holes, ore you never become happy.
The girls are laughing and joking about it. ROFL
The most important mindset you have to have is : Always have fun
: Listen to all the stupid things people say and do ( and the stupid things you say and do yourself) And repeat the stupid things out loud to your surroundings and laugh/smile about it.But remember, don`t be the funny guy who takes all the **** all the time. ( Don`t be the clown) Make fun of other people to so that you don`t become this person.
And it is not attractive to make too much fun of yourself. ( This is called low self esteem in other peoples eyes)
Example: The girl are saying to her lady friend: The guy has come to pick us up.
X : Deam, your friend are nice, she are finding a boy for you. ( X laughing)
The girls looks shooked a moment and after a few seconds they start to laugh.
X: One d i c k are to little for you, you need one in each of your holes, ore you never become happy.
The girls are laughing and joking about it. ROFL
The most important mindset you have to have is : Always have fun
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Man when self amusing , if you have a strong frame, you can draw people on your reality.When self amusing , dont be the pvssy that does something than looks around for others reactions. That wont work. Instead , keep doing it and until they are drawn to your reality.FairShake said:
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Don't worry about the outcome. The best way is to "give them" and experience with you, and just let loose and let your kalamazo out. Say something outrageous and something they don't here every day, the more creative the better, For example:
(smiling and laughing)
Oh my god, you necklace just blinded me when the sunlight hit it. Why does it have to be so shiny, man you must be a cool girl, but still ouch.
The secret is too be in a naughty state, or you wont be in the zone muahahahaha!
(smiling and laughing)
Oh my god, you necklace just blinded me when the sunlight hit it. Why does it have to be so shiny, man you must be a cool girl, but still ouch.
The secret is too be in a naughty state, or you wont be in the zone muahahahaha!
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What about a guy who has more serious intentions in his dealings with women, such as a lifelong committed relationship? Life isn't one big party. I'm 35, fun is for young people although even when I was young myself, things that others seemed to find "fun" didn't interest me. As far as having stories to tell, I'll bet a lot of those "adventures" that you can laugh about now weren't so much fun when you were going through them. Not very safe anyway. If a guy is looking for a serious lifelong committed relationship, is he really supposed to present a "fun" image to women, when going out and partying and getting drunk and being irresponsible isn't the kind of life he wants for himself and a future wife? When women expect a guy to be "fun" during dating, do they not understand that when the dating phase is over its time to get down to the business of real life (going to work, paying bills, making prudent life decisions)? To me it is just living in a world of pretend to say "we're just going to have a good time and have fun", like that's going to continue after the dating phase is over.
To be a funny guy, simply do and say things that make you laugh, rather than doing things for other's amusement. I find my funniest jokes are ones where I can hardly contain myself from laughing when I say them, and everyone else bursts out laughing because of the fun energy I am creating, even if the joke wasn't that good.
If I said the funniest joke, yet didn't laugh myself and just looked at other people waiting for them to laugh, then it becomes unfunny.
If I said the funniest joke, yet didn't laugh myself and just looked at other people waiting for them to laugh, then it becomes unfunny.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.