"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how do you "ask" her to check in a hotel with you?

DJ Alejandro

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hey, djs.

it's been a while. i've been successful with women but there's one thing that eludes me.

usually, i'd get girls and they'd come inside my room with me but there are times when i wouldn't be alone in the house. that's where things change.

so how do you "ask" a girl to check in a hotel with you?

this most especially troubles me when i'm out partying at night. say i've had established rapport and all that. but i'm having trouble. i don't know how.

my experiences have been limited to being in my house. i'd like to experience checkin' in a motel/hotel or something.

how do you do that in a convo? thanks for the replies.

p.s. i don't have a car. so taking a cab is basically the option. how should convos go when you're in a cab too?
 

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xdreamz

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i just go "lets go get a room together at the hotel" and she'll either agree and go with you or she'll be uncomfortable about it. either way just be patient about it and she'll eventually succumb to your wishes...
 

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...I usually just say "do you wanna go up stairs"...by this point the girl knows where the evening is headed. Asking something like that should be fairly obvious if you understand the climate.
 

xdreamz

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oh also...girls will also go with you inside if you can come up with some legititmate reason for her to go inside with you.
 
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