"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how do you "ask" her to check in a hotel with you?

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DJ Alejandro

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hey, djs.

it's been a while. i've been successful with women but there's one thing that eludes me.

usually, i'd get girls and they'd come inside my room with me but there are times when i wouldn't be alone in the house. that's where things change.

so how do you "ask" a girl to check in a hotel with you?

this most especially troubles me when i'm out partying at night. say i've had established rapport and all that. but i'm having trouble. i don't know how.

my experiences have been limited to being in my house. i'd like to experience checkin' in a motel/hotel or something.

how do you do that in a convo? thanks for the replies.

p.s. i don't have a car. so taking a cab is basically the option. how should convos go when you're in a cab too?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i just go "lets go get a room together at the hotel" and she'll either agree and go with you or she'll be uncomfortable about it. either way just be patient about it and she'll eventually succumb to your wishes...
 
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...I usually just say "do you wanna go up stairs"...by this point the girl knows where the evening is headed. Asking something like that should be fairly obvious if you understand the climate.
 
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oh also...girls will also go with you inside if you can come up with some legititmate reason for her to go inside with you.
 
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