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how do you "ask" her to check in a hotel with you?

DJ Alejandro

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hey, djs.

it's been a while. i've been successful with women but there's one thing that eludes me.

usually, i'd get girls and they'd come inside my room with me but there are times when i wouldn't be alone in the house. that's where things change.

so how do you "ask" a girl to check in a hotel with you?

this most especially troubles me when i'm out partying at night. say i've had established rapport and all that. but i'm having trouble. i don't know how.

my experiences have been limited to being in my house. i'd like to experience checkin' in a motel/hotel or something.

how do you do that in a convo? thanks for the replies.

p.s. i don't have a car. so taking a cab is basically the option. how should convos go when you're in a cab too?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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xdreamz

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i just go "lets go get a room together at the hotel" and she'll either agree and go with you or she'll be uncomfortable about it. either way just be patient about it and she'll eventually succumb to your wishes...
 

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...I usually just say "do you wanna go up stairs"...by this point the girl knows where the evening is headed. Asking something like that should be fairly obvious if you understand the climate.
 

xdreamz

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oh also...girls will also go with you inside if you can come up with some legititmate reason for her to go inside with you.
 
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