"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How do you apologize without coming across as beta?
- Thread starter El Payaso
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I_was_born_a_PIMP
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TheMonkeyKing
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The simple answer: you don't apologise. For anything.
....May be only under very extreme circumstances like if you run over her dog, or, I dunno, accidentally f*ck her sister, or some such....
Tictac
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'Mistakes were made' is a waste of air.
Never apologizing for anything ever is arrogant.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It's not beta to apologise. It's a sign of great strength if done assertively and with intent. It's very beta if it's to make the other person feel better.
Being an alpha is not synonymous with being an @sshole.
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u always seem to be douchy to these girls...and its working.
don't apologize unless ur in front of a court judge....these girls obviously made u resort to u being less than gentlemanly with them.
I think ur not as douchy as they make u feel. They always come back ur way so...if u want...just stop bringing down the thunder hammer on them.
Its like this....i tell my chicks...dont apologize to me for ur rudeness, crankyness, bad day...just don't behave like that when I'm around. That silences them and they start behaving lady like.