"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do y'all deal with flakes?

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If you set a date and a woman told you she couldn't or gave you a bull**** excuse how would you handle it? And why do woman flake on guys they're interested in?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I freak out and threaten to kill her!!!

And say "b1tch you don't waste my fvcking time you fvcking wh0re!!! You're lucky the law protects you or I'd hunt you down and slit your throat!!!"
 

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If you set a date and a woman told you she couldn't or gave you a bull**** excuse how would you handle it? And why do woman flake on guys they're interested in?
Delete/block # after having trolled her I usually go with taking a huge dump and telling her it reminded me of her. Next her &&& go get more baes! Spin plates. Its the solution to all the problems women bring.

You will thank me in the next few years as she hits the wall, gets fat, and becomes a single mom. Step your game up!
 

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Delete/block # after having trolled her I usually go with taking a huge dump and telling her it reminded me of her. Next her &&& go get more baes! Spin plates. Its the solution to all the problems women bring.

You will thank me in the next few years as she hits the wall, gets fat, and becomes a single mom. Step your game up!
Thanks bro. P.s she's already a single mom lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If she counters with a dated and time then she is somewhat interested. Try to set that up. If she continues to be difficult see next paragraph.

Otherwise, respond with "no problem, hit me up when you are free" and let her show interest by letting you know when she is free. Then you move on from her and consider her not work your time. She may get back to you eventually, she may not. You will have moved on and forgotten her.
 
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I freak out and threaten to kill her!!!

And say "b1tch you don't waste my fvcking time you fvcking wh0re!!! You're lucky the law protects you or I'd hunt you down and slit your throat!!!"
This post demonstrates that, for as long as you've been here, you have not absorbed any information and are still standing at the DJ starting line, spinning your wheels.

SMH
 
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If she counters with a and time then she is somewhat interested. Try to set that up. If she continues to be difficult see next paragraph.

Otherwise, respond with "no problem, hit me up when you are free" and let her show interest by letting you know when she is free. Then you move on from her and consider hey not work your time. She may get back to you eventually, she may not. You will have moved on and forgotten her.
I never got a counter offer lol.. all good I'll just hit another p.u.s.s.y.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I freak out and threaten to kill her!!!

And say "b1tch you don't waste my fvcking time you fvcking wh0re!!! You're lucky the law protects you or I'd hunt you down and slit your throat!!!"
Not to mention, this reply (joke or not) is reminiscent of your state of mind when you were cyber stalking that chick you went to jail over. Again, illustrating that you haven't left that "frame" either.

You can't possibly believe that you will be successful socially when you still have these demons. Just something to think about.
 

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Spin spin spin.

It’s not easy though. Guy comes here crying because of a flake, we say spin, he says I’ll spin (or in your case “I’ll just hit another pvssy”).

We all know spinning multiple plates takes a certain level of game many here don’t seem to have, yet. The advice to spin is the best because you honestly stop caring and everything else just falls into place.

Like sazc said if she counters fine go with it, unless it’s “can we do tomorrow”, I’m very reluctant to put 2 back to back days on the line for a time waster.

Work on trying to spin plates.
 

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If you set a date and a woman told you she couldn't or gave you a bull**** excuse how would you handle it? And why do woman flake on guys they're interested in?
If a woman cancels a date and doesn't counter with an alternative time, then absolutely nothing. All forms of communication end there.

If there isn't a mutual interest with any woman I pursue, then I simply move on. My time and attention is equally as valuable as her pu$$y. It's as simple as that.
 

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"Sorry I'd love to, but too busy washing my hair."

 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I was going to delete my account because of the **** heads on here lol
Just use the ignore function, I do.

Oh, and Ignore the ignor function naysayers too. They're losers.
 

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Ignore.

Unless: like sazc mentions there is a counter offer.

No Counter = ignore and move on

When you feel without options or like having nothing do like... like 1 month after the flake... Hit her up again.

If she replies with Yes... go to the date
If she doesn't replies or No... delete number without any replies
 
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