niceguytoalphamale
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If you set a date and a woman told you she couldn't or gave you a bull**** excuse how would you handle it? And why do woman flake on guys they're interested in?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How do y'all deal with flakes?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
RichardTheFrog
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I freak out and threaten to kill her!!!
And say "b1tch you don't waste my fvcking time you fvcking wh0re!!! You're lucky the law protects you or I'd hunt you down and slit your throat!!!"
And say "b1tch you don't waste my fvcking time you fvcking wh0re!!! You're lucky the law protects you or I'd hunt you down and slit your throat!!!"
niceguytoalphamale
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LMFAO!!!!!!!! You are so alpha
DEEZEDBRAH
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Delete/block # after having trolled her I usually go with taking a huge dump and telling her it reminded me of her. Next her &&& go get more baes! Spin plates. Its the solution to all the problems women bring.
You will thank me in the next few years as she hits the wall, gets fat, and becomes a single mom. Step your game up!
niceguytoalphamale
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Thanks bro. P.s she's already a single mom lol
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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If she counters with a dated and time then she is somewhat interested. Try to set that up. If she continues to be difficult see next paragraph.
Otherwise, respond with "no problem, hit me up when you are free" and let her show interest by letting you know when she is free. Then you move on from her and consider her not work your time. She may get back to you eventually, she may not. You will have moved on and forgotten her.
Otherwise, respond with "no problem, hit me up when you are free" and let her show interest by letting you know when she is free. Then you move on from her and consider her not work your time. She may get back to you eventually, she may not. You will have moved on and forgotten her.
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This post demonstrates that, for as long as you've been here, you have not absorbed any information and are still standing at the DJ starting line, spinning your wheels.
SMH
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niceguytoalphamale
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It was pretty immature
niceguytoalphamale
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I never got a counter offer lol.. all good I'll just hit another p.u.s.s.y.
sazc
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You hang around here long enough you will realize who is actually trying to contribute and who is actually trying to pollute.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
niceguytoalphamale
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I was going to delete my account because of the **** heads on here lol
sazc
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Not to mention, this reply (joke or not) is reminiscent of your state of mind when you were cyber stalking that chick you went to jail over. Again, illustrating that you haven't left that "frame" either.
You can't possibly believe that you will be successful socially when you still have these demons. Just something to think about.
Murk
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Spin spin spin.
It’s not easy though. Guy comes here crying because of a flake, we say spin, he says I’ll spin (or in your case “I’ll just hit another pvssy”).
We all know spinning multiple plates takes a certain level of game many here don’t seem to have, yet. The advice to spin is the best because you honestly stop caring and everything else just falls into place.
Like sazc said if she counters fine go with it, unless it’s “can we do tomorrow”, I’m very reluctant to put 2 back to back days on the line for a time waster.
Work on trying to spin plates.
It’s not easy though. Guy comes here crying because of a flake, we say spin, he says I’ll spin (or in your case “I’ll just hit another pvssy”).
We all know spinning multiple plates takes a certain level of game many here don’t seem to have, yet. The advice to spin is the best because you honestly stop caring and everything else just falls into place.
Like sazc said if she counters fine go with it, unless it’s “can we do tomorrow”, I’m very reluctant to put 2 back to back days on the line for a time waster.
Work on trying to spin plates.
If a woman cancels a date and doesn't counter with an alternative time, then absolutely nothing. All forms of communication end there.
If there isn't a mutual interest with any woman I pursue, then I simply move on. My time and attention is equally as valuable as her pu$$y. It's as simple as that.
wifehunter
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"Sorry I'd love to, but too busy washing my hair."
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Just use the ignore function, I do.
Oh, and Ignore the ignor function naysayers too. They're losers.
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Ignore.
Unless: like sazc mentions there is a counter offer.
No Counter = ignore and move on
When you feel without options or like having nothing do like... like 1 month after the flake... Hit her up again.
If she replies with Yes... go to the date
If she doesn't replies or No... delete number without any replies
Unless: like sazc mentions there is a counter offer.
No Counter = ignore and move on
When you feel without options or like having nothing do like... like 1 month after the flake... Hit her up again.
If she replies with Yes... go to the date
If she doesn't replies or No... delete number without any replies