niceguytoalphamale
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If you set a date and a woman told you she couldn't or gave you a bull**** excuse how would you handle it? And why do woman flake on guys they're interested in?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How do y'all deal with flakes?
- Thread starter niceguytoalphamale
- Start date
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
RichardTheFrog
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I freak out and threaten to kill her!!!
And say "b1tch you don't waste my fvcking time you fvcking wh0re!!! You're lucky the law protects you or I'd hunt you down and slit your throat!!!"
And say "b1tch you don't waste my fvcking time you fvcking wh0re!!! You're lucky the law protects you or I'd hunt you down and slit your throat!!!"
niceguytoalphamale
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LMFAO!!!!!!!! You are so alpha
DEEZEDBRAH
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Delete/block # after having trolled her I usually go with taking a huge dump and telling her it reminded me of her. Next her &&& go get more baes! Spin plates. Its the solution to all the problems women bring.
You will thank me in the next few years as she hits the wall, gets fat, and becomes a single mom. Step your game up!
niceguytoalphamale
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Thanks bro. P.s she's already a single mom lol
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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If she counters with a dated and time then she is somewhat interested. Try to set that up. If she continues to be difficult see next paragraph.
Otherwise, respond with "no problem, hit me up when you are free" and let her show interest by letting you know when she is free. Then you move on from her and consider her not work your time. She may get back to you eventually, she may not. You will have moved on and forgotten her.
Otherwise, respond with "no problem, hit me up when you are free" and let her show interest by letting you know when she is free. Then you move on from her and consider her not work your time. She may get back to you eventually, she may not. You will have moved on and forgotten her.
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sazc
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This post demonstrates that, for as long as you've been here, you have not absorbed any information and are still standing at the DJ starting line, spinning your wheels.
SMH
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niceguytoalphamale
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It was pretty immature
niceguytoalphamale
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I never got a counter offer lol.. all good I'll just hit another p.u.s.s.y.
sazc
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You hang around here long enough you will realize who is actually trying to contribute and who is actually trying to pollute.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
niceguytoalphamale
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I was going to delete my account because of the **** heads on here lol
sazc
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Not to mention, this reply (joke or not) is reminiscent of your state of mind when you were cyber stalking that chick you went to jail over. Again, illustrating that you haven't left that "frame" either.
You can't possibly believe that you will be successful socially when you still have these demons. Just something to think about.
Murk
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Spin spin spin.
It’s not easy though. Guy comes here crying because of a flake, we say spin, he says I’ll spin (or in your case “I’ll just hit another pvssy”).
We all know spinning multiple plates takes a certain level of game many here don’t seem to have, yet. The advice to spin is the best because you honestly stop caring and everything else just falls into place.
Like sazc said if she counters fine go with it, unless it’s “can we do tomorrow”, I’m very reluctant to put 2 back to back days on the line for a time waster.
Work on trying to spin plates.
It’s not easy though. Guy comes here crying because of a flake, we say spin, he says I’ll spin (or in your case “I’ll just hit another pvssy”).
We all know spinning multiple plates takes a certain level of game many here don’t seem to have, yet. The advice to spin is the best because you honestly stop caring and everything else just falls into place.
Like sazc said if she counters fine go with it, unless it’s “can we do tomorrow”, I’m very reluctant to put 2 back to back days on the line for a time waster.
Work on trying to spin plates.
If a woman cancels a date and doesn't counter with an alternative time, then absolutely nothing. All forms of communication end there.
If there isn't a mutual interest with any woman I pursue, then I simply move on. My time and attention is equally as valuable as her pu$$y. It's as simple as that.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
"Sorry I'd love to, but too busy washing my hair."
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
wifehunter
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Just use the ignore function, I do.
Oh, and Ignore the ignor function naysayers too. They're losers.
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Ignore.
Unless: like sazc mentions there is a counter offer.
No Counter = ignore and move on
When you feel without options or like having nothing do like... like 1 month after the flake... Hit her up again.
If she replies with Yes... go to the date
If she doesn't replies or No... delete number without any replies
Unless: like sazc mentions there is a counter offer.
No Counter = ignore and move on
When you feel without options or like having nothing do like... like 1 month after the flake... Hit her up again.
If she replies with Yes... go to the date
If she doesn't replies or No... delete number without any replies