“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How do yall cope with losing a major plate

Dhoulmagus

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I lost her at the worst time. The campus is pretty much dead after finals till school starts on January. I have to work all month, so my only hope is on New Years day. I've deleted all contact, but I keep thinking about her and fighting myself not to break nc.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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I deal with it the only way I know how:

Step 1: Look forward to the next plate
Step 2: Find the next plate
Step 3: Spin the next plate
 

skinnyguy

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Dang man you have so much oneitis you might be full on depressed soon. Take care of yourself and stop thinking about puss
 

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why wait until new years. there are plenty of smuts on tinder/pof.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Was just thinking about this as I'm resigning one of my plate for flaking last night.

It helps if you remember that You are better off by yourself than with someone with an atom of disrespect for you.

It's not my way or the highway but its my way, if you're trying to be with me. I can let it go your way when I want and if I want but this is my show.

There's like a billion more girls man, right now my line of thinking is: my focus is on making myself better, women come and go when the next one arrives I'll enjoy her till she leaves, which they all eventually do.

What's better than a old broad? A new punani!
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
I don't have a billion girls to talk to.
1) You quite literally do, but they're not going to walk up to your doorstep and say "Heeey Doulmagus!! Heard you were lonely..." - Gotta go out and get 'em...or build it and they will ***..

2) This is the mindset that you have to adopt - that there are billion of chicks available for you to sink your teeth into. Any one can be replaced.
 

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I work and have school to be going to malls and hitting on soccer moms. It's not worth the time and effort to get flaked on. Well, I didn't lose it, but I can feel it sleeping away.
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
I work and have school to be going to malls and hitting on soccer moms. It's not worth the time and effort to get flaked on.
Then first and foremost, devote your attention to school and work because those two ought to be head and shoulders above the desire for a female(s) anyway. Also, excelling at those two will gradually build up your value which will make acquiring women easier, not to mention the confidence it will instill in you ...which also will help make acquiring women easier as you'll have actual value to fall back on, not perceived smoke and mirrors PUA trickery. Socialize with and try to relate to everyone, do your best to keep an upbeat disposition as it's the basic building block of success with the girlies.
 
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